My MIL got me all the way FUCKED UP!

You make it VERY clear to him it's you or his mother. That's an extremely unhealthy level of attachment...always here to talk if you need someone

I get wanting to keep connections with your family but once you choose a life partner, the family you make with them is top priority "dont let the family you come from ruin the family you make"-some.guy on tiktok

@Andrea I have and told me I can leave at anytime but he is also aware of the fact I have no family or support so I'd be on the streets..

Amen 🙌
If only be thought that too.

I think making him choose between you & the woman who birthed him is extremely toxic & an awful choice. Anyone who would make me do that would be the one that gets dropped.. but I think setting boundaries is definitely necessary in situations like this. In a relationship communication is key. He needs to respect you & you need to respect him. You know what you want to tolerate & what you refuse to. But saying it’s him or his mom & he already said you can leave tells you what he’s going to do. Think of this.. if he were to choose you & she died he’d have a lot of resentment towards you.. but if you died he’d go to her for comfort. There’s nothing wrong w being close to your parents but it 💯 sounds like you guys need to have a talk & see if you can compromise on boundaries

I’ve been in a similar situation with my MIL and husband if your MIL is anything like mine , nothing you will say will change how she feels about you her mind is already made up. My advice is don’t waste your energy fighting with them set boundaries for yourself and keep being that strong smart independent woman that he married to began with. Let her reap what she sowed