Friendship

It is so hard to find good friends. Like I struggle to make friends. Lol, I laugh about it because I’m a grown woman, with a husband and kids, yet I’m still so worried about friendship.

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It's really hard as an adult made even harder be being a mom. I made most my friends through a professionals meetup group, but now, 8 years later. I'm one of the few married off and the only one with a kid. The dynamics change so much even now that I'm looking for friends all over again since I don't have any local mom friends.

I know exactly how you feel, my husband and kids are basically my only friends, I have acquaintances that I have tried to get together with but at the end of the day they never follow through or we really don't have much to talk about so it dies off because I tend to feel like I'm unwanted or bothering them after a while

I really get it. I have neighbors with kids and they just don’t seem interested. There kids are much older and my son has special needs so it bothers me a lot

I moved to nepa a few years ago and a lot of my friends are my partner’s childhood friends. I have friends in my hometown and from college but it’s turned virtual because they moved all over the east coast. They have visited but sometimes on a Friday night it would be nice to hangout with family and friends on my side. I drive to long island once or twice a month to visit my family and it’s a lot.

This is me , I know it sounds crazy but I just want one good friendship no judgement just friendly love lol I’m a clingy girl and maybe that’s the problem ,

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Has anyone else had issues with their friends that aren't pregnant or have kids?

I have a friend at work and we've become really close over the years. But ever since I become pregnant she just doesn't understand anything I'm going through which is fine except for the fact that the past few days I have been exhausted physically and socially. We have been helping another friend out for about a month now and we've had to keep him entertained as he's going through a rough time right now and it's drained me socially . my friend at work is frustrated because I'm not talking a lot and I'm exhausted and she doesn't understand why and I'm just curious if anybody else has had issues with friends that are not going to the same thing or have gone through the same thing as you connecting with you because she's literally mad at me. She stopped talking to me at work today and I just don't understand what to do.

Spicy chat

Anyone up for a spicy chat, I’m horny

Friends

I’ve been on this app for almost 5 years now I still can’t find one friend. I just need a friend. I’m so fucking lonely.

STD rates and body count

Saw an interesting video and I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts on this topic!

So std rates are at an all time high as we all know. Do you think the mindset that body count doesn’t matter has contributed to the significant increase of STDs and HIV?

Secondly if someone says that body count doesn’t matter do you believe they are less likely to practice safe sex compared to people who believe in more traditional values?

I can’t put all the combinations in the poll so feel free to comment just yes/no answers

(If you’re going to reply please keep your responses respectful and polite.)

31 weeks pregnant and lonely

How to deal with loneliness in pregnancy when your boyfriend goes out with his friends drinking 😅🥲 I only have three friends, two are never really free and one lives back in Liverpool and has her own set of friends where she goes to raves and goes on holiday with them lol. My boyfriend is going out soon for the night as it’s sunny and I’ll just be sat here crying like every single time! When does it stop 🤣

Any moms in the DMV area?

Hey! 💕 I want to start a group chat or something so we can all connect.