Sleeping in own cot

Can someone please give me some advice on how you got your toddler to sleep all night in their own cot? She slept through until we moved her into her own room when she was 9 months (I know this is quite late but I had major anxiety about it) since then she has woke up near enough every night apart from maybe 5 times (she’s now 18 months) and she will scream the house down until we get her in our bed. I know it may be my own fault for keeping her in our room so long at first. She was waking up around 3am but we’ve recently been on holiday where she slept in a travel cot in our room which she slept fine in for majority of the night but since we’ve come back she’s been waking up literally an hour or two after we’ve put her to bed and will not resettle in her own cot. I’m spending most of my night hanging off the bed 😩

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I don’t have an answer for your question unfortunately but I do want to say don’t feel bad or that it’s your fault she’s not settling in her own room. Some little ones stay in with their parents until they are 2/3 years old! So 9 months is nothing! My little girl is 1 and is still in with us at the moment and I’m in no rush to put her in her own room haha. Shes just a baby that’s found comfort sleeping in your room with you, just keep doing what you’re doing. It will get easier. Sorry I can’t give you any advice that will help x

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