Baby no sleep

Hi, I had my baby 4 weeks early and he was born in September. He spent 10 days on NICU, and had quite a traumatic delivery. My baby doesn’t sleep. We’re having to do shifts, just so we get some sleep, my husband is due to go back to work in a few days and I don’t know how I will cope. We can share the load as he’s off. My baby just doesn’t sleep. He won’t go down for longer than 20 mins, he’ll only sleep on me, but I can’t co sleep, as I am terrified of SIDS. I just don’t know what to do, I could deal with the wake ups and night feeds if I got longer than 29 mins rest. Is anyone else in the same boat? Or have any advise?

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