Confirmed miscarriage

Just had the hospital confirm my third miscarriage.

I know a lot of people just want reassurance when they have any sort of blood or discharge but sometimes it’s not always best.

I’ve had 3 miscarriages and they’ve all been different.
My first was missed and I didn’t have any blood or cramps.
My second I started off with light brown spotting and then it went red and then it was a heavy period until the pain started and it came out naturally.
The third which I’m going through now I had very light, pink spotting so I thought it was implantation bleeding, then it was going from pink to brown, until it finally turned red and clots began to come out.

I’m not writing this to scare anybody but I think you should always get checked instead of asking people what it might be. Everyone is different and all 3 of my miscarriages have started in different ways.

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I’m so sorry you are going through this! It’s so heartbreaking I’ve been in your position too! I hope you have a lot of support around you!

But I do agree with your post, I’ve had 4 miscarriages and all 4 of mine were completely different and started in different ways! I advise anyone with any kind of bleeding to get checked out! 🤍

I'm so sorry to hear this Charlie, I've had 3 losses to and like you all very different. Xx

I’m so sorry! I’ve also had multiple miscarriages and they were all different too, here if you want to rant to anyone❤️

So sorry Charlie 🖤

I'm so sorry for your loss hun! Honestly I know the feeling I too have had 3 miscarriages and know how it feels pls be strong xx

Going through the same. So sorry for your loss, sending hugs ❤️

How many weeks we're you when you had ... guessing it would be noticeable at 6 weeks? If I was to have a miscarriage?

I’m so sorry you’re going through this! You’re such a strong woman sending so much love ❤️

first time I was 10 weeks, second time I was 6 weeks and this time I was 4 weeks xx

So sorry to hear this, currently going through the same. You have got this, your time will come❤️

Get checked yes when anything unusual happens. Don't be afraid or think it's silly to.

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