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If you had stitches from tearing during birth how long did they tell you it takes to heal?

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I wish my doctor would have told me, all they said was they'd look at them at my 6 week check up

same but I’m still in pain

I'm 3 weeks pp and I'm healing cuz the stitches start to itch

I used to the Frida healing foam and Tucks pads

I’m a week pp. I have the foam. I feel so sore still

I’m almost 3 weeks pp and I’m still sore..

aww man! I was hoping this would be over soon. I bounced back so much faster last pregnancy. I tore but it was minor and no stitches. This pregnancy I tore and got stitches and I’ve been in bed mostly

My stitches have almost all completely fallen out but I still feel sore randomly throughout the day 🫠 I’m over it.

how many weeks postpartum are you? I’m rally over the soreness too because I want to do more around my house

I’ll be 3 weeks tomorrow. My stitches have been coming out the past two days but if I stand for too long, I feel pain and pressure down there. And I can’t sit down quick, I have to still go a little slow. I’m over it too.

oh I have a few eeeks to go. I really want to get back on my feet

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When does it get better?

I was crying on the phone with the perinatal mental health team today and the lovely lady, bless her, kept assuring me that it gets better. I kept telling her I hope so because people have been saying that since having my LO and it just feels like it keeps getting worse. She assured me it gets better....

Rant/WWYD

My sister (youngest, 24) has two kids, 4 & 1, and i (oldest, 30) just have my one who’s 6mo old right now, so i ask her for advice or call her to vent about things sometimes. Well im tired of her turning around and telling my other family members that I’m “losing my sh*t.” Literally have not lost my sh*t nor have i ever freaked out to her about my baby, i just call her to talk and tell her what stage my baby is in or talk through how im feeling, but she chooses to tell people that im like a complete nutcase or something which worries me that my family is going to start being judgmental about me as a mother or looking at me funny like I’m some fragile ticking time bomb.

What would you do in this situation? I’m already pretty much decided that I’ll stop telling her anything about my struggles, but I’m almost at the point where i feel like it should be confronted because she, of all people, should understand what I’m going through.

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Has anyone died their kids hair a fun color and have any recommendations for kid friendly hair dye that actually works and stays in the hair for a bit? 👀👀👀

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