Waking up at 4am? 😩

My LO is nearly 9 months and for the last week he has been waking up at 4am, is their a sleep regression around this age ? Someone please tell me I’m not the only one going through this 😢

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My youngest is nearly 9 months old as well in a few days and we’ve been getting up at 4am as well for weeks 😩 I can’t find any reason why other than my daughter can’t stay awake past 6 she has already had lots of sleep when 4am comes around 😂

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It’s so strange honestly, my LO has barely 2 naps throughout the day and bath him the same time. I know he’s tired so I don’t know why he isn’t sleeping past 4am. He’s only just fallen back to sleep but these early wake ups are a struggle 😩

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Some kids are just early risers I think haha my eldest used to get us at 6 everyday and I thought that was bad😂
Mmm you would think your little would be really sleepy with not having good naps 😬 I wish I had some tips for you but so far nothing has worked for us.

My daughter still wakes for a night feed as well haha at 9 months old 😂 I was told to start giving some porridge before bed and when they start getting tired to then put them in the bath 🤷🏻‍♀️ this is to try and extend the bed time but I haven’t tried it yet so not sure if it works.

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They get us up at 4 and then they go back to sleep a little while later😂 cheeky aren’t they haha

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Hopefully someone has gone through the same thing and has some advice that works 🤞🤞☺️

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What time is bed time?
I was told they only need 14 hours of total sleep at this age.
My LG has 2 - 3 hours day sleep over 2 naps and then only sleeps 10 - 11 hours at night (she still wakes 1 - 2 tikes for a feed)
If her bed time is 7, we're very lucky if she reaches 6 am when she's up for the day.
Maybe try your little one with a later bedtime xx

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If they’re overtired at bed time from too little sleep it could be a reason for waking up at 4am which is then reinforced by a morning nap that’s too early- it can turn into a viscous cycle - I’ve seen some suggestions to really try and push out the morning nap as late as you can so they don’t start to see it as a “catch up” for an early wake!

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We are going through the 9 month sleep regression right now I think. Earlier wakeups and had a few days of poor naps.
I would suggest if they wont nap during the day try taking them for a super bumpy car journey to knock them out 😆 poor day time sleep means poor night time sleep.

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Mine wakes thirsty and wanting food in the early hours but then goes straight back to sleep.

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So we went through this, some babies might need more than 2 naps. My one has 3 naps still 2 naps being an hour to hour and half and his last nap half an hour. And goes bed at 7 and wakes up at half 6. When we tried 2 naps he would wake up at 4 x

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Yh my LO is doing the same she’s been doing it since she was 8months I think it may be the weather in our area our house gets very cold also she’s had an ear infection so I think that may have something to do with it maybe take LO to doctors to rule out being ill xx

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Mine has been consistently waking up each night for a feed and goes back to sleep although sometimes she contemplates to stay up and play 😁 The most she goes is 7 hours after the night feed so she’s up anytime between 2 or 3 am for another feed and sleeps until 7.30am after that.

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There is definitely some kind of regression my baby was awake the whole of Monday night😫 and has been sleeping awfully for a week 😫 it’s so tiring and has definitely been the worst leap / regression yet for us

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yes same! I think mine is teething but she takes a 1-2 hour nap then fights all day til 4 and desperately needs a nap for 30 min then no matter what time I’ve tried getting her to bed she’s up at 4/430am. I’ve done 530/630/730pm

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