Am I wrong?

I suppose it depends on the Tone In your voice if it came across judgy when you said it?
But if it was just conversational and you were literally just saying you’re opinion then he’s just being over sensitive

I mean if he’s the one paying for it, that’s one thing. Since you’re paying for it, what you want is important and you’re allowed to voice that. *edit to add, you should always feel like what you want is important too. Just in this case you’re paying for it so it’s kind of completely up to you.

He definitely should have been more polite about it but what else was he supposed to do other than step aside and let you pick, it was clearly important to you

Maybe your husband feels the same way about his opinion if every piece of wood he picked out you didn’t like(I understand it was only 2 pieces but still), maybe this happens often and you guys just need to talk about it. Ask him why he reacted that way and tell him how it made you feel without calling him rude. I definitely don’t think you’re wrong btw but maybe he has a different pov that makes him not wrong too 🤷🏾‍♀️ communicate ! Work it out ! What do you gain from being “right” anyway

It might have been the tone of your voice even if you think you didn’t sound mean or judgy some people are like that me included with how bad my anxiety is sometimes depending on the persons voice or how they say it I sometimes think I might have upset them or made them mad and instantly I start apologizing lol

I agree. I think it depends on the tone you used when you made this comments.

Is he always hyper sensitive to criticism?