How to escape parent

I moved to England for the same reason.. now it’s my husband, so he’s gonna have to go too lol. But yeah, this credit score c*ap was a big problem (still don’t know how that works, we don’t have that in France) for quite a few months, finding a job in my field too since I qualified abroad, but thank God it all resolved itself. I contacted an organisation called self-help (in the UK), discussed my mental health with my doctor and the cognitive behavioural therapist I’ve been assigned, was prescribed anti depressants and anxiety medication, and I start to finally feel normal 95% of the time. My father had abused my mother and myself when I grew up, she never divorced him, and when I got older, just insulted me, called me names, and so on. I have been diagnosed with an autoimmune condition, she couldn’t care less, so I’m glad I moved although I don’t have any family here. My point is, I understand how you feel, you’re not alone.. you can talk to me anytime you need to 🙂.

Thanks im older now so none that bothers me anymore my farther is alcoholic I don't have alot to do with him but when he drank he always took it out on ma mum he never hurt me physically but I have son who's ten years of age now I still can't get away from her she not aggressive I just have to keep putting up with her laziness getting involved in my realtionships constantly saying things because I had to be parent instead of her I just want me and my son away from her now she thinks by giving me money when I need help with finances is showing someone love but its not my son Is about to go to high school so I can't move to far but I need to get him away soon as I can she doesn't help out with house she expects me too look after her as well as my son . I have been given some anti depression tablets but they make me sleep for hours so I can't take them cus of my son I need to be awake 🤧 I just feel trapped and I can't get out at all but thanks for your reply message me on here

Your name is Steph too, it was like I was reading my story over again 😫👎🏻

Sorry for your situation it's horrible when you feel trapped. Speak to your doctor about how depressed your situation is, making you, they will probably offer tablets, etc. But you basically just want it to show on your medical records that you're suffering because of your housing situation. Ask your council if you can speak to a benefit advisor. They should be able to support and help you in the situation. What they do depends on what your situation is, but mine helped me clear my debt with housing authority, so im free to bid for houses now, but they're is alsorts of things they can do to help you. x

Man my mother and I didn’t get along and all I did was leave at age 17. I was scared and young but I made it and have had an amazing life.

Hey, I feel the pain. I’m about to extricate my mother from my boys and my life because she is a covert narcissist and causes me so much mental distress it’s not good for my boys to be around. You’ve got this