14 month rejecting me / preferring dad

I’ve just had a baby via c section so I’ve been less hands on for obvious reasons but she’s refusing my help, cuddles etc. always wants dad. She isn’t interested in me at all. I’m in baby blues era and it’s breaking my heart. I know there’s been big changes but I guess just wonder if anyone else went through this? When she wakes in the night she wants dad too. I’ve done all the night feeds her whole life until very recently and it hurts!

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It happens all the time the preferred parent switches

For months my lo didn't want me at all only dad. But he comes back round eventually. Currently he can't b separated from me at all or he cries and he's 2 and a bit now

When my daughter was born, my son loved her from day 1. But he hated, and I mean HATED me. It was severe. But things settled down, and now he's all over me too. It's a big change. Just be there. She is likely testing to see how much of the rest of her world is at risk of changing on her. She'll settle in, and so will you!

At first my son wanted his daddy all the time, but then it switched to always wanting me literally clingy to the point I am like go to your daddy

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Hi everyone! I gave birth via emergency c section 9 months ago as my baby boy was measuring big, he pooped inside so there was risk of him inhaling it and I wasn’t progressing past 3cm to have a natural birth and now I’m currently 20 weeks pregnant with my 2nd baby. I’m having a consultation on Tuesday to talk about birth options and to have any questions answered but I don’t know what to ask. I feel like it would be safer having a c section again but at the same time I don’t want a c section. Does anyone have any question ideas I could ask or any advice/stories of similar situations. Tia

Anyone else felt like this?

Hi, I’m 4 months postpartum, little one sleeps through the night and is formula fed, the last week I’ve felt extremely tired and very hungry! Just wondered if anyone else has felt this way/experienced this?

Hey what are your current symptoms?

I’m 37+5

I’m pretty mobile still but anything over a hour or 2 and I’m in discomfort

Getting up from a sitting position is hard

Some of baby’s movements now are bordering on painful especially around my crotch/pelvis

I’m exhausted very easily and nap every single day

Can basically only breathe out my mouth now and I’m snoring and dribbling 😂

Standing in one leg is very painful 😂

Some waves of pain/ tightening but I regular and mild

Low period type aches

And I feel like a fire breathing dragon with this acid reflux

My nose is growing 😂

My fingers swell slightly and go numbs in my sleep so that and constant toilet breaks keep me up ( checked swelling with MW and consultant and all normal, not a worry)

I also do not want to be social in person like I’d rather everyone just be my penpal atm lol

What are your symptoms?

Planned c section

Has anyone had a planned c section and been home the same day?

C section compression socks

Hey ladies when did you ditch the compression socks and how mobile were you when you did? I’m so done with them! 6 weeks tomorrow since the op and im walking around the house doing jobs and baby care but not really out and about yet (the odd day I am) is it safe to ditch the socks?