Im going to the 12 week scan tomorrow but i am very scared that i found out one of the twins not there or both i have a bad thoughts even that i didn’t feel any different i still feel sick and have pregnancy symptoms,no cramps or bleeding , can someone reassure me pleaaaase ? I have been crying a lot 😭😭😭
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Pray about it remember god got the last say so.. but I think your babies going to be okay

Oh hun. I was like this my whole pregnancy. Scared sick and just fearing something bad is going to happen. I think it’s the fact how the drs tell you all the risks and you also do some google research about twin pregnancies and then you’re just automatically waiting for it to happen.. xx
i will do thank you so much xx
yes that’s exactly what i have been doing researching on google especially that twin vanishing scares sooo much

Stay off google as much as you can. I understand what you’re going through. Try to distract yourself as much as you can and surround yourself with positive and funny people so that you can rest your mind xx

You is more than welcome

I have MCDA twins in the doctor told me one twin might be bigger than the other twin in I might have to determine one of the babies do the other twin can have low risk of complications but i prayed in left everything in gods hands

Google is not your friend. If you ever have any questions call your OB office and ask the nurses line. My twins are my double rainbows after 3 back to back miscarriages so I was convinced the whole time something was going to go wrong and I wouldn't let myself be present, so now my entire pregnancy feels fake, like it didn't really happen at all. So my biggest advice is stay positive and stay present. When those scary thoughts come, actively stop them in their tracks and force yourself to think the most uncomfortable, cheesiest, positive affirmations about your pregnancy. You got this!!

One of my twins at 12 week scan one was 5 days bigger than the other and they told me one twin is always bigger and they aren’t bothered by that they take dates from bigger twin

Hard when you don’t feel them yet but they listened to hesrtbeats last week and both fine