Am I just over thinking it?
I guess I'm just trying to see if others think I'm bring dramatic or if I'm valid for thinking what I think.
So where do I begin? Quite a while ago my husband and I decided to take a break because we both became toxic, we've been together almost 10 years- we decided to try to work it out. During our break he got reconnected with one of his old friends little brothers and now they're like family and always at each other's houses ( I haven't moved back in yet while we try to work through our issues).
Since telling me about them I instantly got a weird feeling about his friends mom. My husband has not introduced me to her. I've asked about it multiple times and keeps saying that he will but keeps putting it off.
I sent his mom a friend request on facebook because we're friend with 99% of each other friends and since my husband says thats like his second mom I think she should wanna know me- she still hasn't accepted it and it's been a while since I sent it.
New years came, him and I got drunk and fell asleep around 2am well a day or two later I got on his phone and seen on the messages they were texting around 4am when he was supposed to be asleep.
A week or so before that happened he was staying the night with his buddy they had to come get him because his car was broke down at that time. The next morning I came over and his friend and him were texting and he said "he was letting me know his mom made it home" I said "oh why? he said "well I guess she went somewhere earlier that was only supposed to take a couple minutes and it's been like an hour so he was just letting me know she made it home" I was like "okay well where did she go" he said "I don't know probably to the store". Well later on that day I was using his phone for something and ended up clicking on his friend and his messages and he was asking if his mom left from my husband's house yet after him saying he didn't know. So what shoulda been a 15 minute drive ended up taking an hour?
A couple days ago my husband was telling me that the day before he went to the store and got some chicken nuggets and tator tots so I found that random and asked "why" he paused then said "to eat". Well last night I got on his phone and looked in hers and his messages and they were DELETED except for 4 or 5 (I've gotten on it before and they had a LOT of messages. Nothing too bad but a few sounded "flirty" He's never deleted them though) but in the few that were there, was a message from her saying "If you have enough money 'friends name' needs nuggets and tator tots". I confronted him about it saying why didn't he tell me that she asked for them when I asked him "why" he said "I know I shpuld of I'm sorry, I forgot".
Plus he's talking about them all the time.
I feel like I should mention that the moms husband is a truck driver usually stays out of town a week or two and the other day my husband was talking about them and said they stay into it and are always arguing on the phone whenever he's gone.
My husband is 23 I'm 22 the friend is 17 and his mom is probably in her 40s.
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Seem suspicious specifically her being at his house when no one could find her and the flirty texts. Any chance maybe she groomed him in the past? Like yall are young and the 17 year old is an old friend maybe they had something in the past or maybe it's a "we were on a break" situation. Either way I'm just speculating random stuff but I'd be suspicious forsure
Possibly? But I'm not really sure. Before our break we had a long open talk about things that had happened to us. But glad you'd be suspicious too because I started feeling crazy for feeling like this.
Deleted texts are a red flag, something sounds off but he needs to come forward w w.e that is or you’ll have to move on for your own benefit. Always trust your gut.
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