HEALED YALL!

So I found out my child's father of 2 years was cheating on me about 3 weeks ago and honestly I think that I am feeling really really good about things and positive, like I honestly could care less that he chose to be with the other woman LOL, because at the end of the day I know I'm not ugly and I know my worth and honestly I didn't think it was going to take me this quick to get over him but I did and honestly I'm living for it LOL YA GIRL IS HEALED 🤣❣️

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Good for you sweetie!!!
And if you backslide, that's okay too...
Feelings wise..
But good on you, for knowing your worth & that you DESERVE to be treated better than that!!
You've got this!!!

thank you love so much , I'm trying to hang in there and with those words of encouragement I know I got it ! and you're absolutely right about the backslide, but he has tried to wiggle his way back in but I stand firm on my situation and at the end of the day we got twins together and I need you to be here for them you know what I mean I gave him that opportunity to be a family man and he chose up and did something else! I think we are better when we are staying positive and manifesting a better life for us .

God is good! ❤️👏🏽

& he is 🫶🏾🙏🏾

In most cases cheating, has nothing to do with the person that was cheated on. It’s because the other person lacks discipline and is insecure with their selves in someway.

thisss !!!

oh no Mami, im sorry yess I didn't think so soon for me. But I looked forward and my happiness is my kids happiness. I was depressed for two weeks , didn't celebrate, Christmas or New Years , my kids where sad . They didn't deserve it so I had to think about them and put them first 🫶🏾 it won't happen overnight but I'm praying for you love. Self love is best .

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