Midwife referral

Good morning, I had to wait 8 weeks until I could get the Dr's to refer me to the midwives. (No option to self refer on my hospitals website) I did this on Monday, how long until they usually get in touch? I'm in the worcester area if anyone has any info local to me ❤️

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My GP sent me the link this was over 2 weeks now and I’ve had no contact also wondering is this a waiting game?

feels like such a long time to wait. Especially at the beginning of your journey when you're most nervous x

I would give them a ring. Your booking appointment is usually at 9- 10 weeks so you would ideally be going next week

I was told to ring the midwifes myself which I did and they never answered. Eventually got through. 2 weeks later she's whatsapped me to say to do a phone appointment in 2 weeks when I'm 11 weeks. Hasn't asked how I am or if I need anything, when in truth I feel horrendous. Feel like because I'm 42 and had a previous miscarriage they have written me off until the last minute x

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Hey what are your current symptoms?

I’m 37+5

I’m pretty mobile still but anything over a hour or 2 and I’m in discomfort

Getting up from a sitting position is hard

Some of baby’s movements now are bordering on painful especially around my crotch/pelvis

I’m exhausted very easily and nap every single day

Can basically only breathe out my mouth now and I’m snoring and dribbling 😂

Standing in one leg is very painful 😂

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Low period type aches

And I feel like a fire breathing dragon with this acid reflux

My nose is growing 😂

My fingers swell slightly and go numbs in my sleep so that and constant toilet breaks keep me up ( checked swelling with MW and consultant and all normal, not a worry)

I also do not want to be social in person like I’d rather everyone just be my penpal atm lol

What are your symptoms?

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