Feeling super isolated :(

Hi everyone, I just wanted to get all of my feelings of my chest on here! I am currently 30 weeks pregnant and never felt so alone and isolated before. I have recently moved to Italy to be with my boyfriend and have absolutely no support network around me yet. He works away part of the week which doesn’t help.

Since becoming pregnant I also feel like I have lost all of my friends and find that nobody checks in on me unless I start the communication first.
This is partly my fault as most days I have just been rotting in bed and sleeping as I seem to have no motivation and struggle with sickness.
I wish I had some people to talk to everyday😢😔

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Hey feel free to drop me a message if you want to chat! I'm 19 weeks pregnant! And I know how hard it is when people don't reach out to see how you are. I'd love to chat 😊

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Sorry you’re feeling rotten, you’re not alone! I felt really lonely in the later weeks even with people around. You’re doing thing right thing by identifying how you’re feeling and asking for a bit of support. Have you shared how you’re feeling with your partner? Once baby’s arrived it might help to look into whether there are any local baby groups or meetups for other people who have moved there recently. Hope you feel less lonely soon. (And happy to chat if you like 😊)

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It's normal as the hormones too u can't depend on anyone at all ull meet people here ull talk 2 to 5 days then u both get busy and bored of things to talk about ...

Go do something u never done before try food u never ate ....dance , do yoga stretches and meditation it helps sometimes u don't need anyone but u .... serenity ,and solitude is a bliss

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