Question about ejaculation

I tell my partner to wear a condom not only for protection but also so that there's no mess to clean up when I get up to use the toilet. Is this normal?
I ask because I now have the contraceptive pill but I still want him to wear a condom.

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whatever you’re comfortable with, there’s no rules to sex except not to do it if someone says no

Definitely normal. Some women use condoms for the sake of their pH too. Just because he can finish there doesn't mean he has to lol

Whatever makes you comfortable!

Whats normal to some might not be normal to others. I get it, I like the fact I dont have to clench and quickly go to the loo so it can be dumped out 😶🫣🫠.

I choose not normal as I don’t do it but I don’t like that sentence , everyone is different and there is not such thing as “normal “ in sex. I just wanted to say if the only thing stopping you from not wearing a condom (with a regular partner and other contraceptive) is the mess after it you could have toilet paper near you so you could put a bit to cover your parts or his when going to clean yourselfs or use the toilet, and for the area a designated towel hahahaha I do that as well cosleep with our baby so we have to do it on the sofa instead, with a towel down and paper near we ensure everything is clean afterwards.

If he is the father to your kids or your husband it can be weird because he may feel like you don’t trust him

I too chose not normal because it’s not the norm for me, not because it’s wrong. You do whatever you’re comfortable with. I would never make my husband wear a condom but that’s because he’s my husband. Also, his mess never just drops out of me, it’s always my mess I need to clean and a condom won’t help with that so lol. 😆

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