Finally got my 12 week scan tomorrow and we’ve been looking forward to it for ages but now my partners not able to get out of work as he’s just started a new job so it’s looking like I have to go alone and it’s just giving me more anxiety. With our first we went through everything together and this pregnancy is just going so different 😫
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Can he video call in on a break or something?

I didn’t think they allowed that?

I don’t really have any close enough friends that I’d even be able to ask so last minute and tbh I think I’d feel a bit guilty knowing someone else was there and seeing our baby before him 😫 the only person that would be free is my mum but she’s looking after my 1 year old as we can’t take her with us. I thought that would be the case with phones tbh. I went to a scan on my own in my last pregnancy and that was fine but it was just a growth scan, I feel like this one is much more important and I’d rather him be at this one but it’s looking like there’s nothing we can do 😫

thank you. I just keep thinking well we’ll have the early gender scan in a few weeks so at least we’ll have that together. Just hope everything is okay because it would be horrible if something isn’t and I’m on my own

I’m not sure but it’s worth asking.