Divorced at 5 months PP
My husband just divorced me yesterday.
I'm 5 months post partum and I feel like complete shit. I literally can't stop crying and I don't feel like eating and this whole week my milk supply has gone down due to stress and not eating. What helps with milk supply?
The divorce- on Monday at 5am me and my husband had a small argument on text. It was regarding him not catering to my love language. I sent him a video on how women shouldn't have to ask and how laziness can kill a relationship. We've had many arguments regarding this prior about him not catering to my love language and he doesn't buy me flowers or doesn't think of me. Anyways this night, he text me saying he doesn't do Mother's Day and all that, he doesn't want to buy me flowers because my sisters buy me flowers and he can't be arsed with my moods. He said I've not been his peace and said he's done.
I replied "okay. All I want is for you to appreciate me and love me as your wife and mother of your child. I'm not pushing you away, I'm begging you to love me etc etc. I'm done too."
I come home from my errands that morning and he's upped and left. He took all of his belongings, clothes, drawer, tv- everything.
He didn't ring or text me or anything.
The property is in my name and as he left and didn't leave the key, I changed the locks the next day. I feel this is what pushed him over the edge.
He officially divorced me on Saturday.
I'm 5 months post partum and I have a 5 year old from my ex partner too.
I just want to talk about it with someone that's not biased. Was I asking for too much? I feel he just didn't want to be with me anymore and used this as an excuse? Or is that me overthinking....
Input would be nice xoxo