Divorced at 5 months PP

I'm so sorry. 5 months pp is still such a stressful time what with sleep deprivation, hormones etc.

It sounds like he is not able to handle constructive feedback or communication. The fact he just upped and left without saying anything is crazy.

He probably wanted you to grovel to him after he left so when he saw you changed the locks, he escalated.

A rational conversation could have easily resolved all this but he clearly wasn't interested. You will be better off without him. You got this x

Getting you milk back lots of fluids and high carb foods pasta, rice, porridge, potatoes, bread. For him to blow up like that over a few little arguments over the same thing and to just get everything an go makes me think he's been wanting an excuse to go. The fact he was able to do it in a day means he had the option to go somewhere. You are not asking for the world by wanting to be shown you are loved. Showing you are loved doesn't need to be flowers it can be anything at random time not just on special occasions. Keep your chin up mama. You'll get through this x

Keep the doors locked.
Or if you want him back be tough and state your list

Sounds like you're better off lovely , this is not good for the long run - there will ALWAYS be ups and downs

5 months pp is no time.
He needs to have some grace for how much life has changed . Yourbody is not even 'back to normal'. You're sleep deprived.

You don't need to be 'his peace'. You're a team, you work together - sonetimes there's peace sometimes not.

Perhaps he didnt like the way you sent a video. Needed a conversation to address this - not a divorce!

You were not asking for too much at all! Honestly I know it sucks, but the trash took itself out and that is a BLESSING. You will get through this and you will prosper ❤️

It doesn’t feel like it right now, but you’re going to be so much happier.
I’m 3 month post split from my husband after 11 years and I still get emotional at times but in the long run I know I’ll be better off.
My needs were also not being met, we deserve the bare minimum 🫶🏻

I think postpartum is a really tough time for both parents, physically and mentally. It’s a shame that you both split before you had time for the baby chaos to settle down a little. It might’ve been a case where both people’s cups were very empty and hurt and you’re both being defensive. To offer another point of view, if you weren’t serious about ending your relationship with him, why did you say you were done and change the locks on your door? To him, it meant you were serious. Like he said, he wants peace so he’s not going to play a mind game. I’m not saying that what he did was right. He should’ve been patient and understanding especially now. In my experience, the baby stage was so difficult and can make you hate your partner at times but looking back, you’re both super tired and vulnerable. Giving a lot of grace, forgiveness and love from both sides helped a lot.