Overwhelmed…..

stroller??:o

no need for park could just be a walk to no where😂😭

my husband only financially provides everything for us cause he works a lot in his own restaurant, i do it all and i went through the postpartums and all; without any help. it's all doable dont worryy

without him, we wouldnt be able to be home owners and go on trips & vacation yearly🥹 so i accept to just do it all

Why can’t you go for walks? Bad neighbor or something? 😞 that’s my salvation. (I don’t drive or have a village/help. But I also only have a 15mth old.)

I find this always helps me think/ground a little to ask yourself “What would help look to me?”
Talking/typing it out, helps me understand why I’m overwhelmed, usually I’ve calmed down after I do said excise, then also know what I need help with and can communicate it. Or at least compartmentalize what I need to do next.

If babies are change; in a safe space and fed, take a minute. Even just to breathe.

Why does your husband not help at all? Like does he refuse like a gender roles thing? Or?

I’m sorry hun 😞. But you do deserve help and understanding. So you don’t feel this way about this season.

@Lexi i thought strollers are until 3 yrs old??:o

Stop asking for breaks. Claim them as a birthright and TAKE THEM.

🫂🫂 hugs to you. Have you tried communicating with your husband that you would like more support when it comes to your me time and the babies. I used to be in that predicament until I realized my self care is detrimental and much needed. Maybe invest in a wagon for the 4 year old and to carry around things for a walk and a baby waist carrier for the 3 month old. Schedule more dates between you and your hubby as well.

Momma where do you live.? I have a double stroller and i have a mom cozy harness. You could push one and carry one.

I be feeling the same way my husband works a lot nd sleeps a lot nd I'm just getting back into the workforce working from home it will blow over soon communication is key

I might be a bad guy for saying this but this is why preparation is SOOOO important while you’re in early pregnancy. It seems like your family was just completely unprepared to have a second baby. Id lose my mind with no car, no stroller, and a 2 bed with 2 babies. Having a-double stroller would make a huge difference and you can find them used on Facebook marketplace for cheap. you gotta lay the hammer down with your man!! My man is blue collar so he’s gone 12 hours a day, I completely understand how frustrating it is but the babies are here! So we need to tough it out for them. Tell these things to your husband for sure. If he’s gone all the time because he’s putting food on the table I get it, but your mental health is off the upmost importance. If you’re not good, the whole house is not good. Demand that second car and stroller girl, you don’t need to suffer!!

I feel your pain I have a 3 year old and a 1 month baby, and my husband truck broke right before the baby came so he’s been having my car and the stroller is in the car so I’m stuck in the house, however I have a couple days planned to go out and that gives me something to look forward to, tell him you want to use the car and just go out for a second