I’m so fucking overwhelmed and frustrated I’m done being a mom!!!! I get ZERO fuckin help from my husband. Only help I get is my mom and that’s if she comes get us. I don’t have a car. Can’t go for a walk. No park. No nothing but a 4yr and a 3month old in a two bed 1bath apt 24/7 365 being basically a single married mom!!!! I’m over it!!!!!!!
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stroller??:o

no need for park could just be a walk to no where😂😭

my husband only financially provides everything for us cause he works a lot in his own restaurant, i do it all and i went through the postpartums and all; without any help. it's all doable dont worryy

without him, we wouldnt be able to be home owners and go on trips & vacation yearly🥹 so i accept to just do it all

Why can’t you go for walks? Bad neighbor or something? 😞 that’s my salvation. (I don’t drive or have a village/help. But I also only have a 15mth old.)
I find this always helps me think/ground a little to ask yourself “What would help look to me?”
Talking/typing it out, helps me understand why I’m overwhelmed, usually I’ve calmed down after I do said excise, then also know what I need help with and can communicate it. Or at least compartmentalize what I need to do next.
If babies are change; in a safe space and fed, take a minute. Even just to breathe.
Why does your husband not help at all? Like does he refuse like a gender roles thing? Or?
I’m sorry hun 😞. But you do deserve help and understanding. So you don’t feel this way about this season.

@Lexi i thought strollers are until 3 yrs old??:o

Stop asking for breaks. Claim them as a birthright and TAKE THEM.