Stupid comments made by husbands

🥲 he’s only a man they just don’t get it I feel like..

WHAT?! Ew! Why would he say that… omg 🤦🏽‍♀️ men do not think before they speak I swear … smh

“ I see why men with kids cheat”

and why would that be sir?!

There’s no reason WHY but also I’m sure that made you definitely feel some type of way which is absolutely valid!!!

I definitely think these men be saying some dumb stuff sometimes but that comment was a bit alarming? Weird? Rudeeeee for sure cause why does he “understand” it? Kind of contradicting to say that you understand it, but you don’t condone it….? Idk for me that would’ve opened a whole can of worms and a long conversation..sometimes it’s best if these men just keep their mouths shut 😭… they look so cute til they say something lol

Yeah, I’d love to know his reasoning behind that. Why do guys with kids cheat??

Madness

Mine does once in awhile says some off the cuff things that make me do the “Stewie head tilt” look at him like “boy, have you lost your mind?”

The last one I can remember is us having a conversation about anxiety. Which he has multiple times witnessed and helped me deal with near panic attacks or a couple ones where I did actually pass out. Anyway. He just randomly said “yeah, I don’t think social anxiety or really anxiety in general is real anyway.”
Since apologized after I explained how that made me feel.
It’s not usually mean things, but definitely has caught me by surprise a few times

My friends husband said this to me, luckily not in ear shot of my friend. I too just had a baby at the same time as them. And I just said, on what level do you think that’s okay to say? It’s the most vulnerable time of a woman’s life after birth and only weak emotional immature men think that way. I followed it with I understand why women leave men in the first year or so after birth because men show their true colours of maturity. He apologised :( men are actually dumb sometimes

Most definitely you’re not alone!

They have little tiny baby brains ☺️

OMG, my BD has done that to me so many times, just minimizes the whole thing, it’s so invalidating. He too apologizes but he does it again and again. Dumb.

My husband told me that 90% of the complaints he's ever heard from male friends who split up with their wives or girlfriends, it was always about sex. They always started complaining they weren't getting enough sex and it went downhill from there. Might be giving him the benefit of the doubt here, but maybe your husband was trying to say something like that, just... badly.

Men can be dumb sometimes but that was a terrible thing to say.

Then you should say you’d condone it as well but you’d never do it too. Like if things were the other way around and see his reaction.