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Hi. Normally I don’t do that and let things like that go but I got very touched with it that time.I posted on this group photo of my daughter and got comment that she is too tinny and if she is ok. This made me delete the picture as I didn’t feel good with comment like this.It sounded like I neglected my baby. My baby has perfect weight and height for her age. She is 9 months tomorrow and her size is 9-12 months. She is very active baby but eat a lot of food rich in iron and vitamins. All is homemade, she doesn’t even have any pouches from shops. She eats how much she wants, she is on breastmilk which I need to pump and cost me loads of effort. Comments like this are harmful. Why do we comment other babies weight. Not all babies are chubby, chunky or whatever. Obesity is serious issue as well. So I would advice to mind own child s weight and stop comment others even do it in a good will. I am mother of my child and I see if everything is good with her. She has regular check ups with doctors and nurses and she is perfectly fine. Thanks for worry. I wish people could mind them own child like they mind others 😊 I am sorry for this post but because of this comment I was overthinking all day and worried if I am even good mother for my child… so think next time what u say to others and check if your babies are doing well. I don’t hate for that comment just felt bad about it so I decided to post that. Thank u

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Don’t let anyone put you down your doing a amazing job

thank you! ❤️ I am overreacting very easily sometimes and things get to me very strongly especially when doesn’t sounds good to me. I am hypersensitive and I know there is more mums like me and wouldn’t feel good about things like this happen when they just want to show them cute babies 🥹

People make comments like this about my babies too. It’s veryyyy frustrating because I know they’re perfectly healthy just try not to let it bother you and avoid associating with people who think they can speak that way.

thank you! And btw your babies are the cutest perfect little girls 😍

Please just ignore them. Some people are nasty. You are doing an amazing job. Your little is happy and health and thats what matters

thank you 😊 🥰

I’m so sorry about this comment, if I saw it I would’ve got involved straight away. You know your baby best, it’s not for a stranger on the internet to judge them off of one picture

thank you ❤️

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