Co worker drama

I think the fact that he’s texting her at all is already too much

He’s entertaining a woman that has mad it clear to both of you that she wants him and even though you’ve made it clear it’s making you uncomfortable he’s still texting her and talking to her at work. So not only is he actively making her think he likes her attention and making her happy by responding 24/7 knowing she likes him, he’s also not respectful of your relationship and your feelings.

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Ooo and he’s building a bond with someone he knows has feelings towards him and is willing to cross boundaries to get what she wants

He leading her on but it depends is your man a natural flirt. Cause me I’ll flirt all day but I ain’t doing nothing when it come down to it. Soon as you try and touch aye im married chill. So I guess I lead people on but I know I like to flirt so does my husband I mean if he not naturally like or really charming and females are like that all the time that then it it’s sus

It is disrespectful if he knows she's is interested in him and he encourages it with communication. He shouldn't be communicating with someone that has made that clear and he should also be making your feelings a priority. If he can't, he doesn't need to be in a relationship at all.

I’d be like say what wanna say through text bc what you gotta say privately you can’t say through text for us all to read ?

If he’s texting her back than he wants her to . He didn’t set boundaries he loved the attention . SMH

we had a huge argument. I keep telling him that I didn’t like he was taking to her. But all he could say was that I should have done or said something before I let it go too far. He thinks I’m going crazy over this and that I need to get some help. He doesn’t think it’s healthy that I’m obsessing over them talking.
I have deleted her off his facebook when he was sleeping and he got pissed that I deleted her without telling him…

Yeah that’s a major red flag, he should respect your feelings. My bd does anything that’ll make me feel better when I express my concerns/feelings he doesn’t even think twice he might have a little comment here or there but he ALWAYS does whatever to make me happy & content! He should definitely try to atleast give you peace of mind that’s just pathetic I’m so sorry you’re going through this!

Also you shouldn’t have to tell him anything he should’ve already knew that was disrespectful to you, how would he feel if you were to just sit and talk to another man and not respect his wishes ??? If he doesn’t care at all then maybe he’s just rlly not in the relationship like he should be. Thats just awful

see I asked him that question ‘ what if I had a man message me everyday and on valentine day send a message of “miss seeing you” he told me he wouldn’t like it and would have me get rid of the man’ but it’s ok if he does it because him ignoring her is better then getting rid of her or telling her to back off.

So when we had the argument, I told him that he needs to tell her to stop messaging him because I know that they see each other at work but he says no she’s in a different rotation than me and was like so you know her schedule so within the next time you see her let her know so he’s like ‘OK fine I’ll let her know that you’re crazy and that you’re insecure and that you need to stop talking to me because you’re making my wife uncomfortable.’

Ewww he’s grossing me out

He’s gaslighting you calling you “crazy” “insecure” ..

He rlly ain’t gotta do all that wtfff the simple “us talking about anything other than work is super inappropriate and disrespectful to my relationship, you’re making my wife uncomfortable and I care about her so I think it’s best if we no longer have conversation unless it’s strictly work related “ would safice what the heck.