Do you guys think I was in the wrong

So I just found out my mother in low is talking shit about me right now I am 29 weeks pregnant and I got a one year old ok I let her live with me because she just got out of the hospital I didn’t mined helping family but when she got her own place 2 days ago she started throwing a kid like fight like it was sad that she have to act like a kid to try and get what she want and my husband think oh it’s fine all because she wanted me to clean her house then I had to clean my house my mother in low don’t get up out of bed at all people have to give her shit because she can’t get out of bed and I told her it’s not my place to help you clean like nothing is wrong with you. So why can’t you get up..what you guys think was I end the wrong

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Like when I say this my mother in low don’t even get up out of bed people have to bring her food she is not sick or nothing she just want be the queen of everyone and I told my husband I am not going to let your mother be this kind of away to me I been helping his family for the past 15 years and she hates that I am with her son

Lol my husband sleep all day and at night he go to work and last night she try to pull the same shit again

No, she shouldn't be asking for anything. She should be thanking you as you just let her live with you! I would refuse just like you, I bet you've got your own shit to sort out nevermind cleaning her house x

The dr told me I need to be on bed rest and she don’t care

I didn't even need to read the whole thing before deciding that you're not in the wrong. I have a lot of issues with my MIL, but I usually let my husband defend me because he doesn't put up with it and I think she takes it more seriously. If he isn't there to or she's saying something directly to me, I 100% would say something back, and it wouldn't be nice at all. There's no reason to take disrespect from anyone, and if you allow it to happen, it'll only continue or get worse.

My father in low don’t even want be by her he say because how she is

You’re pregnant & she wants you to clean her house ? And on top of that your doctor needs you to be on bed rest ? I wouldn’t even waste breath arguing with her lol. Block, deleted, ignored

Yeah she throws her little fit to try and get what she want the first time I clean her house and mine and when I was done I was in so much pain my dr wants me to be on bed rest because I am only 29 weeks pregnant and I am 2cm

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