Nighttime feeding my 13mo. old

My daughter is 13 Mos. And still sleeps with a bottle at night. We've tried 4 sippy cups and sippys with straws and she hates them all. We have her drinking milk 40/60 water since she's recently drinking less milk, but I've been shamed by my mom CONSTANTLY for this and have been trying my hardest without any result. Our pediatrician only at hee 12 mo. Appt said the goal is to try to not be on milk by 15 mos. but I don't think she'll be off bottle by then. Am i crazy? I feel like such a failure.

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My 13mo son also has a bottle at night. I'm currently reducing the proportion of milk to slowly replace it with water. We saw our pediatrician last week, he's not concerned at all. He did not even say that we should try to stop the bottle.
I don't see the issue, really. We have enough actual problems to think about.

I started with sippy cups at night. And now we do straws. But it took awhile. And sometimes and won't take the straw at night but I'll do the sippy cup. But we're completely off bottles. That waa a struggle. It's not easy. Don't beat herself up.

So as a nursing mom we aren't told to night wean until at least 18 months. It's totally normal for them to still want that comfort. I think people get too hung up on literal babies relying on their comfort item when they're most vulnerable (asleep or sleepy). Sure it's great to try to get them off of it as bottle rot is a concern but we do also have to meet our children where they are. The added pressure is most likely stressing both of you out and isn't productive overall as the general anxiety is being felt. You'll get there eventually!

My baby still has a bottle in the morning and before bed but what I did is I cut a slit in the nipple so it's way faster like it would be if she drank from a cup. We do cups throughout the day with water and juice but haven't gotten her to drink milk out of the cups yet. The milk is cows milk is cows milk only. The pediatrician didn't even ask us about them lol so idk

My daughter is 13 almost 14 months and she was exclusively breast fed and she still goes to bed breastfeeding and wakes up once or twice to eat… trying to wean her but every baby is different you’re doing great momma<3

I have 2 year old we still offer milk but he talk with me listen a story or lie down watch stars on the ceiling for 15 to 20 minutes. And then he drinks 8 oz in the morning 11am after his breakfast. He takes a nap by himself at 12:30 around for 1 hr

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Hour night wakes and 5am get up

Can anyone shed some light as to why on earth my child doesn’t want to sleep??? My eyeballs are bleeding!!

Never been a good sleeper, but the problems always changing. He’s nearly 9 months old.

Beginning of the month he dropped to 2 naps. We could put him to bed at 7pm and he’d get up for the day at 6am, with multiple wake ups every 2/3 hours.

Now we put him down at 7pm, he can do a good 4/5 hour stretch, but come 1/2am he’s up every hour then getting up for the day at 5am. This then completely messes up the day because I can’t keep him awake long enough to even get to 7pm, let alone later.

He has 2 naps, roughly about 1hr10 each but it changed based on when he wakes and trying to get him to a reasonable bed time.

What could be the reason for this? 6am is fine, but 5am is not 😩😩

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I have a 4 month old and now all of a sudden when he’s been asleep for 1hr30/2hrs he will wake up screaming (high pitched) I’ve tried winding him sometimes that helps, I’ve tried bicycle legs & bringing his knees up but that doesn’t seem to help but he brings his knees up himself sometimes but nothing happens. I’ve noticed since the 4 month mark he has started to struggle passing wind downwards! Any tips?

Help meeee

!!All advice welcome!! My 5 month old (nearly 6mo) is just not sleeping . Not for naps and not at night . She can’t connect her cycles . We started sleep regression at 3 months but in like how is this nearly been going on for a further 3 months . Like surely not . She has 10 min naps in crib ( which take so much effort ) and maybe 20/30 min naps in my arms/pushchair . She wakes minimum every hour at night with guaranteed false start 20 mins in . I combo feed. I breastfeed her until almost asleep then place her in the next to me crib give her the pacifier and put my hand on her cheek/face for 20 seconds and she drifts off . It’s not really getting her to sleep that’s the issue it’s she just won’t stay asleep . She doesn’t even need to feed much at night usually 1-2 breastfeeds . The rest is comfort wakes needing her pacifier or my hand on her cheek . I’ve looked into sleep associations and independent sleep and I broke the feed to sleep association and rocking and do bedside comforting instead for most wakes which has now lead to my hand being a sleep association on her face . I’m just so exhausted my husband is working mon-fri 9-9 and it’s just me . I haven’t had more than 4 hours in a row since her birth . I can’t get anything done during the day . She is so clingy and cries if I leave room /put her down etc. I love her so much but we both need rest . If anyone has any tips or a routine that could help PLEASE tell me I’ll try anything 🥲❤️❤️

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I am nearly 5weeks postpartum and I have such a big over supply of BM.
Has anyone donated / sold their supply, if so where do you recommend for this?

I think its fair

Me and my partner agreed to sleep in 1 day of the weekend.
He doesn't find it fair to look after both kids (my 4 year old isnt his) while i sleep so he looks after the baby while i sleep and my toddlers at his dads and ill look after both the next day.
Straightaway it was pretty unfair as i let him sleep in until he wakes up 10-12
He wakes me up when baby starts fussing because he wants milk (doesnt need it)
I cant pump as i dont supply enough.
So i get woken at 9/9:30 to feed baby then i get him sleep then theres no point sleeping in as my toddlers being dropped off.
I also find it unfair that i get both kids to sleep most night, i get my toddler to sleep everyday hes home (4/5days) and i get my baby to sleep most nights with the exception of maybe twice a month as his dad struggless then about 95% of his thru the day naps.
I have also been unwell for a few months (tumor scare) and am waiting 18 weeks to see a specialist so im obviously petrified for that, so unbelievably tired and alot of aches and pains, specifically these pounding headaches ive been having.
After i had been up til 11:30 getting both kids to sleep lastnight and my partner falling asleep at 10 then him ignoring the baby cries all morning until my toddler woke up im fed up slammed to door and rold him not to expect to sleep in unless he gets the baby to sleep the night b4.
I keep having issues with him not feeling the wet from baby being sick or weeing himself or being able to smell it do about 98% of the time hes given to me i have to clean him up n change him.
Including at night, we agreed my partner would change nappies (1 a night at 5am) while i feed (2,4,5,6:30) but every night when i get him hes pissed through and my partner gets annoyed when i wake him up n moan about it.
Then the morning after hes annoyed at how much washing there is (thats his job) and moans about how often i change myself (baby constantly shits thru and sicks on me) and baby
Honestly im just so tired all the time

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