Comforter

Anyone else’s LO use a comforter? If so, do you leave this in crib/cot with them at night?

My LG loves hers but I take it out once she’s sleeping. However she’s started to stir in her sleep recently and will wake looking for it. Just wondering when it’s safe to leave overnight?

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Since we hit 6/12 I leave it in overnight

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I won’t be leaving anything in the cot until a year as recommend. I take it off her before I put her down if she’s got one in her hands when settling.

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Ours has had a jellycat bunny as a comforter in with him overnight since maybe 5 months old and has been absolutely fine
I wouldn't sleep at night if he had something that had some kind of fabric/blanket attached to it though

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My lo has a little jellycat dog teddy. He’s 6 months still in his next to me so I keep an eye on him throughout the night & if he wakens & needs it I give it to him & then when he’s gone back over take it away.

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My little boy has a jellycat giraffe and he settles himself with it, I’ll take it away when he’s asleep and prop it at the top of the cot well out of his way. I’ll give it back to him in the night if he wakes but then remove it again, he has a habit of pulling it over his face.

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my little boy is the same with putting it over his face 🙈

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