Don’t know what to do..

So.. took a pregnancy test last night as had a weird feeling and well im pretty sure im pregnant. Would you all say that it’s definitely a positive? I’m so scared. I have a 13 month old and a 3.5 month old who were both really premature. Honestly have no idea what to do, the thought of termination kills me, I dont think I’d be able to live with myself. But mentally I don’t know if i can handle 3 so close together 😥 Any advice please?

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This may be an unpopular opinion, but you have to do what's good for you and your babies in this situation. Whether that's termination or keeping the baby. A decision like this is not easy and def needs to be talked about/thought out with someone in your life like your partner/family member/close friend.

Currently 31 weeks with my first, and my husband and I have discussed in depth on what would happen if we were to get pregnant with a second anywhere in the next 5 years and we know we do not have the time or financial ability as well as we don't think I would be able to go through the pregnancy without risk. So we decided termination would be the way to go no matter how hard it is. But this is a very serious decision that took a while to get to.

You are strong and you will be able to get through whatever you decide on doing and nothing you do is the wrong thing to do!!

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Baby #2??

I really want baby number 2 and am thinking of doing it via IUI as a solo mama!
Has anyone had any experiences with it 👀

Tests

So I had a blood test at the drs bc I keep getting positive tests when the blood test was negative what could this mean? Hubby says the tests are negative and said he can’t see anything. Negative image down below.

One and done… or not?

32ftm. I’m starting to feel so much pressure to have another baby soon as I wean from breastfeeding so they can be close in age and be friends, but I don’t feel ready for pregnancy and newborn trenches again 😭 my husband and I are all we’ve got. Having just one baby without a village has been really tough. Am I being unrealistic wanting another one soon?

I'm so not meant to be a mother.

My kids won't listen to me get into stuff when they know they aren't supposed to. Telling me no all the time. Only listen to their dad. Laughs when I correct them. I spend most of my time yelling at them because they don't want to listen to me at all. My husband said that I shouldn't have kids. And I am believing him on it. I was never meant to be a mother now. I won't hurt my kids I just want to disappear and make everyone else's lives better without me.

Am I pregnant?

I lightly spotted almost 5 days ago, which is not common for me before my period.
My period was supposed to come today. I should have tested in the morning but its 5:30pm.
Is there a second line??

Anyone have this happen before?

We were not trying to conceive, used protection and had sex on week 2 of my cycle (accidentally on my peak ovulation day). Week 3 we had Flu A. Week 4 my period did not come (it’s very regular). I tested and it was negative (2 different brands).
What should have been week 2 of my next cycle (now 6 weeks post last period), I had light red/ pink spotting for one day when I wiped. The following week, I tested again, still negative, but this time almost all the dye was in the negative space, which I’ve never seen happen before. The area where it shows one horizontal line for negative and a plus sign for positive, the horizontal line was super faded at the 3 minute mark, and the negative vertical line in the next window was VERY dark. Now I’m on week 8 of all this, period did not show up yesterday. Nothing in my life has changed (no additional stress, no other illness, no changes in diet or exercise, etc).

Has anyone gone through this and NOT been pregnant? I’m super nervous as we thought we were done having kids.

PS. I know I should go get a blood test, does anyone know if urgent care will do that? I’m past being convinced by a pee test.