Baby Daddy mad that my gf gets called mom

So my girlfriend has been supporting me since I got pregnant by my baby daddy (we were in a poly relationship but he’s a jerk so not anymore) and he’s mad because her and I will both go by Mom/Mama (still deciding who’s who in the future) even though the kid is not related to her. I think she has every right to claim this baby as her own, she’s given me a place to stay, taken me to appointments, helps me out of bed, gets all my pregnancy cravings. I mean this girl treats me like a princess and all he did was get me pregnant. She’s more of a parent to this baby already than he is. But apparently I’m being disrespectful?

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Btw he never once came to any of the appointments even though I put the effort in to schedule them during times he would be available and he hasn’t really been there for me.

She’s been doing everything for you and your BD hasn’t done the bare minimum. Let him be mad.

she might as well be the baby daddy at this point!! you and your girlfriend have a beautiful lil baby on the way and will make great moms screw what sperm donor thinks <3

You’re not alone. Currently going through a very similar situation. I’m 7 months pregnant and I can tell you now, I have no more fucks to give. It is what it is. If my baby daddy wanted to be there, he would. He would rather control me from a distance and get mad when things don’t go his way. After many tears and stressful conversations, all I have to say is FUCK EM.

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Good morning! Can anyone relate to this!

My two friends and me have always been close since our early teens. I’m the first to have a baby.

One friend has big house, career and boyfriend

Other out of a long term relationship and being single having fun etc

Before baby we would all hang at my
Apartment, chat eat and just have
Fun.

Now I don’t even get a text to ask how my baby is, how I am. I really thought they would be awesome aunties. But honestly they don’t care.

They meet up a lot to do cool things, which I can’t be upset about as I can’t as I have my baby.

I don’t know I feel sad about it.

Am I over reacting?

Feeling stupid

I got drunk last night and had unprotected sex he didn’t cum in me but I’m ovulating
And having pain and I’m freaking out

Can I take morning after pill when already ovulating/ ovulated
And is there any safe for breastfeeding

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How to deal with loneliness in pregnancy when your boyfriend goes out with his friends drinking 😅🥲 I only have three friends, two are never really free and one lives back in Liverpool and has her own set of friends where she goes to raves and goes on holiday with them lol. My boyfriend is going out soon for the night as it’s sunny and I’ll just be sat here crying like every single time! When does it stop 🤣