Advice please 🙏🏼

Delulu in my experience, I had the same thing happen with one of my bd and it literally ended up the same

In a similar situation, apart from my baby’s father has been supportive from afar for the last 7 months. Our baby is almost here and for some reason I’ve started to think the same, maybe it can work? Maybe we can start over? Who knows. Try to sit and chat with him, lay everything out (expectations, boundaries etc) and see if you’re at the same stage of wanting to potentially fix things and also on the same page about forgiving and moving on. Good luck mama 💕

Yes, it’s in the best interest for the both of you to raise the child together. But, I wouldn’t let your hormones get the best of you. I did it. I gave in to wanting to raise the child together so far not bad. But, those toxic traits from him are still all there. It’s important to Protect your peace. You should Still welcome him to be there for his child but I would be cautious and set some boundaries of what you would and would not allow when moving forward together. Mistakes happen but remember to hold yourself accountable with what toxic behavior you play apart in as well. Wish you the best.

my baby dad was the most terrible person to me while i was pregnant. cheated on me multiple times, went out to drink and get high constantly, put everyone above me and chose his friends over me. as soon as my daughter was born all of that behavior stopped and i had let him know it was the last chance i was giving him. when i tell you a complete 180 was made. in the end its completely up to you and whats best for you and your family and what you can take and if you believe he can grow as a person and father or not. its not a bad thing to see the best in people but you do have to look out for yourself and when enough is enough then id break it off.

I think the majority of the time it does not work out, I really do think if you break up you break up for a reason and it usually will never be the same so it’s just a waste of time, especially if it got nasty and toxic then I feel you’re even less likely to recover from that and it should’ve never got to that place if you had the best foundations and respect for eachother, I’m sure he does miss you but I feel most people get to that point especially if they’re lonely and have no one else but if you get back together, the issues you had are still there and all that time you’ve had in the healing process then has to restart and it’s just a nightmare, I feel for you but trust your gut x