Pregnant and boyfriend cheated

Me and boyfriend have been trying to have a baby for awhile now since we lost our daughter in 2019 a day after she was born . A young lady jumped in my end box telling me she was pregnant by my guy . I was shocked and disgusted but didn’t believe her until I confronted him . He told me he was messing with this girl for 5 months and she was pregnant . Fast forward. The girl had her baby and they have a paternity test on Wednesday. I am so disappointed and sad , but trying to stay happy because our baby girl is due in July . I don’t know what the hell to do. We also have a 10yr old together .

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Sometimes you are better off alone! You do not need that in your life. I’m currently 24 weeks pregnant my ex left because I chose life instead of abort. It was hard at first but I’m at peace now.. waiting on my little one’s arrival. Don’t get me wrong I have my moments here and there where I break down. But I pull myself back up and try to remain strong for my little ones. We deserve the best. Try not to stress over him or his situation, it’s not good for you or your baby. I’m here if you ever need to talk.

Thank you for choosing life for your baby instead of abort,here for any of you ladies it's not easy being a mama or a single mama but it is and will be worth it 💖

I personally don’t believe in abortion, and I understand where he was coming from but at the end of the day there are consequences for our actions. I see it as a blessing. I know everything seems off and confusing for me, but there’s always light at the end of the tunnel. Can’t wait for my little one’s arrival! 7/21/24 🤗🩷

I understand and I agree with you mama and congratulations girl they truly are a blessing and nothing better than being a mama 💖🥰

Thank you! 😊 I was hoping for a boy but God blessed me with a 3rd girl!!! 🩷🩷🩷🎀🎀🎀

@Yesenia well maybe your next precious bundle of joy will be what your heart is wanting a baby boy💖 I'm the opposite I'm wanting a girl and got another baby boy,have 3 boys a 6 year old,a 9 month old and another on the way in June/July.

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