Stating the obvious and centre of attention

A bit of a long rant. Anyone else’s MIL state the obvious or always need to be the centre of attention/impose her way? Example #1: I’m carrying the baby monitor in my pocket or have it front of me as I’m eating and the LO starts crying…MIL then says ‘she’s crying’…EVERYTIME…no matter how much I tell her I know I have the monitor. Example #2: my parents come to visit or we FaceTime the LO’s aunts and uncles…the MIL always interrupts in person play or conversation people are having with the LO or talking over people on FaceTime. All in an effort to say the LO is looking at her or talking with her. At first I thought oh she’s excited to have a granddaughter but it’s not that…she’s inserting herself into any situation that our LO is getting attention in. She seems jealous. She lives with us so it’s not that she doesn’t get to see her much. My parents stopped visiting because they were beyond annoyed but I stepped in by saying my parents are combing to LO so let’s give them time together. That seemed to help and she’s now mindful of FaceTime convos as well BUT she makes a point to make an appearance and say ‘oh I’ll leave you to it’ after interrupting for a solid 5mins. So she’s still trying to get attention 🙄 Example #3: she tells the LO what the cultural title for relatives are. I’ve been clear that my husband and I are asking people what they want to called and that’s what LO will be coached to call them. At first I politely told her LO’s going to call Person A, insert title. She’d just smile and continue her choices so I got real firm about it and she finally got the message. Her choices were all so crude. Example #4: she’s always telling me to take LO to the doctor for normal baby behavior or actions. She thinks she drools too much or she’s got allergies because she scratches her nose or she needs honey after LO does a bout of her yelling squealing sounds or she gets sleepy fast when she’s really just bored cuz the MIL can’t physically do much playing with her and just sits her next to her on the couch to watch tv. I’ve shut down the nagging about the doctor visits but if she brings up something a few times, I’ll ask the doctor during LO’s monthly check up and caveat with ‘my MIL is the one asking’ and each concern is responded to with the same answer that I’ve already given her 🙄 I’ve shut down the talk of honey too. I know some folks are ok with it but we’ve decided to stick to what our doctor said and aren’t giving her any until she’s older. As for the being ‘sleepy’, I’ve just been blunt and tell her she needs more stimulation because she’s bored. Sorry that was a long read but I needed to get that off my chest and get if I’ve entertained anyone…bonus 🤪