My 10 month old not waving or clapping

My Lo is 10 month old and he doesn’t even say mama or dada he babbles, he is also crawling and practices to stand but not waving and clapping, is this normal? Pls let me know if this okay

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My little boy is 10 months today. He doesn't babble yet or crawl. He likes pulling himself to stand up when he's with us but that's about it

When I worry about things like this I always remind myself that I don’t know any adults who can’t clap or say mama! They all get there in their own time x

My little boys just turned 10 months and he can do all the exact same things that yours can do. I wouldn’t worry about it all babies develop at their own pace, you’re doing everything right hun! Xx

Try not to worry too much, although I know it’s easier said than done. Chances are your baby has some amazing skills that other babies who do those things don’t!
My eldest didn’t clap until 13m and didn’t say mama until 18m and then no other words until 2 and a half. He is a happy and healthy 5 year old chatterbox now who is thriving at school and the fact he was “slow” to clap, talk or crawl is completely irrelevant now!

10 months is still so tiny and yet because of the ‘expected milestones’ we end up expecting so much of our babies who haven’t been in the world long at all! My daughter is ten months and out of all the things you’ve listed, clapping is the only one she does so far.
Think of older children - all children learn to read and write at different paces; it’s the same with babies! He will get there 🥰

This sounds totally normal. Babies often excel in one area and then are working towards in others.. they can't do it all at once. My daughter is nearly ten months and isn't crawling or standing, but communication wise, she is very good.. I know us mums worry, but it's all totally normal! They will do it in their own time.. enjoy them being babies, it goes so quick!

My little boy is the same! He is so active though so I think just focuses on learning that rather than communicating at the moment! Our HV wasn’t concerned when I raised it at 9-12 month check though x

My little boy is exactly the same and I’ve had the same worries! He’s excelled with his gross motor skills but is slightly behind on communication according to the ASQ-3 x

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