Heart break

Here for answers cause same. My bubs is 5 months too and unsure how I’m ever gonna move past him 🫠🩷

Deep down with everything fucked up I love my baby daddy but I know it's best we are not together n accepted it n I'm not sad about it but in my end he's done some fked up stuff

My circumstance is different. We met after I broke up with my bf of 4 yrs. Baby daddy is all nice to my face and over text blames me for having my baby girl. I haven’t seen him since we last hooked up. He hooked up with me three times after i got pregnant and was nice to me in person and hugging me and kissing. Then he leaves and texts me so freaking mad and crap. I swear its like he’s bipolar. I will always love him for giving her to me and I do have feelings but I’m trying to suppress them for my daughter. She’s more important.

Here for answers :(

I wrote down everything he did that was bad and focused on that

@Lexi what if the good car outweighs the bad

at the end of the day you have to choose you, and if he’s not going to choose you don’t choose him

do you love HIM like his characteristics that can’t be found elsewhere in other people or do you love the idea of being with the father of your child? Which isn’t irrational bc you love your child who is a part of them

i think the best way to get over a man is to find a better man 🤷🏾‍♀️ (but don’t let that new man know all the bad stuff your bd does cuz then he’ll know that all he has to do is the bare minimum to keep you happy & we want our men going above and beyond to make us happy just like we do for them!!)

@Emily best advice! So true. It’s hard but just have to keep showing up daily for yourself and your baby and don’t worry about everyone else.

To be honest, I'm going through this right now, but things take time. You don't drop feelings overnight. I have to keep telling myself that what is meant to be will be no matter what people say.

I believe I got over mines by him not being a dad that was a turn off for me to c how he treated my kids by not coming around so I was over it especially when I had to go through struggles and opticles because he wasent there now he is a discuss to me

Shiiii the way I’ll talk to another guy I’ll leave his ass sick!! But you will never stop loving your bd cause he gave you that beautiful little person y’all have together. But to get over him is to move on sis

You're the goddess who attracts. BD is the wrong one to attract especially if he can't see what he's lost. Some day he will come back into your life like he wants you again, but that won't be until you've finally made the decision to move on and girl if you don't want to go through this again, do NOT go back on that decision when you've finally found your way onto the path to recovery.

Current situation blocked mine last night. Moved across the country now I’m here with no friends or family. Sending hugs

Focused more on me and my children I needed some healing and I found later on he is not what I needed

Since you had his child it just a connection there too and soul tie that you need to pray off I also prayed every soul tie I had away from me over and over again until I felt like they were release from me.

@Diamond period because when your back is against the wall the person who will always be there is the one in the mirror the hardest decision is to look at the person you made a baby with and walk away but sometimes there’s no other choice

Took time, a long time but I made myself heal. Told myself all the time I deserve better. Now I have better.

Ladies I have 2 baby daddies and it was the end of the world when it ended with each of them, but life goes on :) I’m now happily with someone else