Dirty talk?

Can anyone teach me how to talk dirty during sex? I really love the idea and think my man would love it to. How do you do it? What do you say? And how do you not feel stupid or self conscious particularly if it’s something you’ve not done before!? Help! Thank you ☺️
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Start with just commenting on what he is doing. Saying you enjoy it. Maybe ask him for something else you want or how you want it (faster, harder etc) Ask him if he likes what you are doing. Do you want more etc. Depends how dirty you want to go. Can use particular names for him or you. You get more comfortable as time goes on and establish what works for you both. Also if it's working for you I find you stop worrying about being embarrassed.

Thank you that doesn’t sound too scary! I appreciate your advice ☺️ X

No problem. Happy to help :)

I use to think it was weird until I got with my husband. I just started to reply to his talking and eventually got comfortable enough to "talk my own shit" lol

Maybe start messaging him first get him going over txt, what you’re going to do to him when he’s home that might help ease into it x

Love that idea! Thank you ☺️ X

Watch some porn or read some erotica x x

We like to dirty talk while he’s at work or one of us is out and dressed sexy…waiting for the other to come home lol. We don’t really do it in person but we do dirty sexting, a lot. To egg each other on and make each other horny before we even see each other again 😂 it’s super exciting for me. But to say it in person…I dunno it won’t come out lol. But to type it, mannnn we can type anything 😂 Try that first. Sexting

If you PM me I can send you screenshots of examples of our convo. I’m not gonna post it here public 😂🙈

@India that’s exactly how I want to be. I need to own it! Just got to get my confidence up. Tbh our sx life is not great all round so I think this will be a great step in the right direction. Thanks for your reply x

@Alex great idea, I’ve never focused on that side of porn before! I’ll just pick and choose what ones I listen to I guess 😂 Thank you I’ll defo give this a go! X

@Kellie a great idea! I’ve literally never done this before on any level but I think we’d love it! I would love to see your examples if you’re sure you don’t mind. I will dm you. I love the idea of the build up before hand I think that would particularly work for me ☺️ Thank you x

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