Back to frequent wake ups again

After a month of decent sleep...
Sleeps in my arms, Wakes up going back into the cot. Drives me nuts but I end up having her in with us.
Nap total doesn't make a difference. Wake ups vary. Wake windows are three hours between naps and 4 hrs before bed. Would extending them help?
I'm more annoyed with husband who seems to think I'm ruining her by going to her when she cries. Give me strength. I've taught her to settle to sleep in her cot at bedtime initially she is just rubbish at resettling unless in a really deep sleep. Which is rare. I refuse to let her cio its not for me. He has no idea, I'm the one who does every bed time as she scream bloody murder when he used to try when she was going through some form of regression

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No advice but he's nearly 11 months and sleep had gone down the toilet. He is exactly the same and almost impossible to get back in the cot during the night so ends up in bed on me alot. Hoping it's developmental and will pass as feel like we have tried everything

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