Why are you living with them?
Is there any chance you could move out? Seems like quite an uneasy environment for you and little one xo
Save your money asap and get out of there if you can! You need to be able to be mom, wife, you, and home owner/maker/renter bc they will always try to be all of that! Jealousy has no bounds
Y’all gotta stop living with the in-laws on this app! If you can, I would move out. It’s usually nothing but added stress and toxic for the OP when I see it on here, I couldn’t do it. You’re stronger than I am!
Yup… my partner was the father figure to SIL kids since he was 13 and was the “man” of the house since he was a teenager when his mom decided to stop dating. When I moved in while pregnant that all stopped he told them he has his own child on the way and can’t parent SILs kids because she’s childish(10 years older then him) and can’t come running to MIL everytime she calls for him. He’s got to speak up or nothing will change. And not just speak up but reinforce with his actions. Nothing will change if he’s not on board with it.
It’ll never change, mothers think when they divorce their husbands their sons will step up, it’s weird