just want advice

me and the babies dad have broken up, and i’ve been chatting to a guy and want to hook up, but i always have the baby, is it weird to have him over when she’s asleep? i don’t know the etiquette around this!
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No. I was in a relationship with someone. Who worked during the day and would come over in the evening which was when my daughter was in bed x

There's no etiquette just do whatever you're comfortable with. Use your best judgment.

I mean how well do you know this guy? There are some weird people out there I’d be careful who I bring in my home especially when you have a baby.

I wouldn’t bring a strange man into my house when my kid is there. How much can you really trust someone you’ve just met

I definitely wouldn’t bring him to my house kid or not if we haven’t met publicly first and had a few hangouts and what not because what if it gets awkward and uncomfortable you’re at your home. It’s not like you can just up and leave and your child’s there now had you guys been out a few times or whatever And you felt comfortable around this person then while your kid is asleep is OK cause sometimes you have to do what you have to do if you have no help I fully understand that I’m in the same boat, but that’s why I’m so alone because I won’t bring anyone to my house that I met off the Internet without meeting them outside of that first, and when can I do that when I always have my kid so I fully get you But just for safety concerns I wouldn’t. It’s not about etiquette. Your child is asleep anyway he wouldn’t be meeting her. But you never know if he’s the creeper type that would try to sneak into her room when you’re asleep or anything I just don’t trust people given the world now

the guy i’m chatting to i was friends with benefits before i got with my daughters dad so i do know him luckily!

It’s a completely different story if you KNOW this person. She’s sleeping she won’t even know that someone came over. As long as you feel safe with him I don’t see a problem with you moving on! You don’t have to feel guilty to start other relationships. Just please don’t invite anyone you’ve never met before, that would terrify me🙏💛 stay safe

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