Sounds like a lot of stress and mind games. Until he starts to make a continuous effort, I wouldn't bother with any communication unless 100% necessary
@Christina I like this comment. Straight to the point and exactly what I need to hear. It has been TREMENDOUS stress with him. I’ve been wanting to enjoy my pregnancy but always having to walk on egg shells around him and almost pretend I’m not as he hated it so much. I will do this but I’m worried he will make an effort at first and then tail off. That’s more what I’m expecting. Xx
Even if he makes an effort at first, just be cautious and keep in mind that it may die down. I can only imagine how it's making you feel. I had a situation where I couldn't enjoy my baby shower, my partner at the time/baby's father didn't come and I felt like I couldn't even bring it up again after it had happened. You should be able to be excited and share all your emotions with your partner. Wishing you all the best ❤️
@Christina thank you Christina. I appreciate the advice.
Genius manipulate King and master narcissist...run!
You have to be strong and stick to your guns! Let him know what you need so yiu guys can progress if not then leave! But you also just have to watch everything question everything because men will lie lie lie! Mine led me to believe he stopped talking to the girl he cheated on me with while pregnant. Fast forward to 8 months later as he was still living at my house not working! We get into a fight i kick him our he decided to go into a sober living program hes an alcoholic.....comes out all of a sudden dating the same chick now supposedly engaged and pregnant!!! Had me complete fuckin fooled as of he was changing
I always say once trust is gone there is no point in staying because I can't forgive somebody for cheating
Ladies, I’m not sticking around. We are over 100% BUT he wants to be in her life and I feel I would forever think “what if” if I don’t give him that chance. It may even help him too.
It's good that he's stepping up as a father. I hope you're okay x
@Christina I’m struggling mentally tbh. I feel exhausted but I’m a strong person. Just feeling a little low at this moment but I’ve been ok all day
It's tough, but well done to you for doing what is best for you. When are you due?
@Christina thank you I appreciate that 🥰 I did it all for her ❤️ I’m due august 3rd 🥰
Awh, not too far to go now and it's 3 days before my eldest daughters birthday :) I hope everything goes well for you ❤️
I had the exact same with my bd. In my case it turned out all my worst doubts were true. He’s never been to a baby appointment but constantly asks to come. He’ll always cancel or just leave you there and not turn up. I tried many times to extent the invitation and try keep my bd in the loop. Save yourself the disappointment and completely block it out. If he wanted to, he would show you and you would have no doubts. I wish I had blocked mine in the start, my bd has made my whole pregnancy miserable and depressing.