Implant

Questions about the implant you can get in your arm

-Did you have longer periods, didn’t have a period or shorter periods?
-Where they heavier then usual?
-Did you gain weight or lose weight?
-Did it affect your mental health in any way?

Anything else i need to know would be extremely grateful, thank you! ❤️

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Please bear in mind my experience was worse case scenario and my best friend was on it for years with 0 impact and it was the best decision she ever made.

- non stop period for 3 years
- when my period "came" I knew because it was dizzyingly heavy
- put on weight, could not lose
- seriously impacted my mental health

My best friend however:

- no period
- lost weight and found it easy to lose
- no impact on her mental health in the slightest

It really is dependent on how YOU react to it. I got mine taken out early but their solution to me having issues was to give me other birth control tablets so I hope your experience is better should you go for it.

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I had it at 16. Within 2 months I had the worst cystic acne after having super clear skin forever, they basically made me stick it out and by 8 months on it I was begging to get it out as the bad skin was not only disgusting to look at but I wouldn’t leave the house Cus of how bad it affected my mental health. Finally they agreed to take it out a year later after I said I’d do it myself if they didn’t. It took about 2 years for my skin to get back to normal but now I’m left with scars from the acne 😭It didn’t really affect my periods, they’ve always been light and irregular and they stayed that way. Probably became even more irregular. I didn’t gain any weight but I’ve always been slim. My partner at the time said it gave me really bad mood swings. Xx

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I had it and had normal periods. No real side effects

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I’ve had twice and both times my periods stopped but I did gain weight a bit both times and the first time my mental health wasn’t great but I didn’t have the best life at the time

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I’ve had it installed last year December but nothing has changed never gained weight

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Sorry this is long, I hope some of you get to the end and give advice!!!

So I’m a very thrifty person, things are tight at the moment, the cost of living crisis and my house is heated by oil so things are extortionate. We aren’t on the bread line but we aren’t flush, hubby might be made redundant so there is some financial pressure.

Sometimes I buy my sons something nicer, on the justification that I can sell it on after (♥️ vinted ♥️). I have also been planning on pretty much breaking even most of the baby things I bought from face book market place, side by crib, baby changing unit, etc.

Hubby and I have different money cultures with our families (he’s Indian, I’m British). I’m my family we don’t mix money, we would help each other out if someone was in trouble and will get each other gifts on special occasions. With hubby’s family money is much more fluid, they will give each other things worth thousands of £ just because.

Hubby’s brother bought him a new laptop and a new Google phone, he’s been very generous to hubby. Hubby hasn’t given the same back because brother is much richer.

Hubby and I mostly share finances. If it’s relevant I’m the higher earner.

Now to the point! My babies are so cute they’ve given hubby’s brother (currently single) baby rabies. He’s asked for our baby stuff when we’re done with it. He’s been so generous to hubby I feel really stingy saying no. But I’d never have bought some of the stuff if I wasn’t going to get a return on it - the thought makes me a bit anxious. If we gave all our baby stuff given the second hand value it still wouldn’t equal what the brother had given hubby.


I thought maybe I could give him some stuff but sell some stuff, but hubby said then his brother will just have to go out and buy that stuff, so I should name my price and ask his brother for the money. That makes me feel very uncomfortable, given how generous the brother has been to hubby.

So what do I do ladies? Give it all and suck it up? Give part of it and sell parts on Vinted/FB, or ask hubbys brother for money for it and be uncomfortable? Or do you see another solution?

No one is being entitled or rude here, just a culture difference I need to navigate.

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