Difficult Naps

First time mom! 3 month old is fighting naps. He becomes hysterical and takes me almost 30 mins to put him down and always contact naps only. Is this normal? He used nap easily prior to the last few weeks.

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I found this to until I started using the app ‘huckleberry’ which helps with wake windows and when you should be putting baby down for a nap! X

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Mine started being difficult with naps about 2 1/2 months and I was told by my sister in law that she swore by the app huckleberry x

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It is Normal! Theres an old saying “nine months in, nine months on, nine months near” ! Unfortunately not the most helpful to hear, but quite accurate in my experience so far!

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He show signs that he’s tired but do I keep him awake for the appropriate wake time ? I find that he gets very cranky if I wait too long

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the wake windows are a helpful guideline but just that, a guideline. If your baby is showing signs of tiredness sooner then put them down when they are tired. I found wake windows helpful only in that it helped me know to watch out for tired signs.

The 4 month regression doesn't always hit but it can result in a lot of contact naps, short naps, and night wakings. Keep at it. You're doing nothing wrong. Their sleep will even out and the most important thing is a calm, centered parent to comfort them because they need your closeness to regulate their bodies in this difficult phase. babies can't regulate themselves so they will take cues from you when you are calm.

They are also becoming more aware of the world every day and sometimes they would just rather not sleep. If the nap doesn't work this time, don't stress and try again in 20 mins. Keep trying naps in their sleep space but don't stress if it doesn't always work. Every try gets them a little more used to the routine. You got this!

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second all of this! My son ended up mainly falling asleep being held in the kitchen while the dishwasher was running from 4-7ish months old ! Environmental triggers can be super helpful! Like for us it was the dishwasher being on, for others it can be certain songs or types of music or being in a specific room or space (and so much more)!

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Hour night wakes and 5am get up

Can anyone shed some light as to why on earth my child doesn’t want to sleep??? My eyeballs are bleeding!!

Never been a good sleeper, but the problems always changing. He’s nearly 9 months old.

Beginning of the month he dropped to 2 naps. We could put him to bed at 7pm and he’d get up for the day at 6am, with multiple wake ups every 2/3 hours.

Now we put him down at 7pm, he can do a good 4/5 hour stretch, but come 1/2am he’s up every hour then getting up for the day at 5am. This then completely messes up the day because I can’t keep him awake long enough to even get to 7pm, let alone later.

He has 2 naps, roughly about 1hr10 each but it changed based on when he wakes and trying to get him to a reasonable bed time.

What could be the reason for this? 6am is fine, but 5am is not 😩😩

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I think its fair

Me and my partner agreed to sleep in 1 day of the weekend.
He doesn't find it fair to look after both kids (my 4 year old isnt his) while i sleep so he looks after the baby while i sleep and my toddlers at his dads and ill look after both the next day.
Straightaway it was pretty unfair as i let him sleep in until he wakes up 10-12
He wakes me up when baby starts fussing because he wants milk (doesnt need it)
I cant pump as i dont supply enough.
So i get woken at 9/9:30 to feed baby then i get him sleep then theres no point sleeping in as my toddlers being dropped off.
I also find it unfair that i get both kids to sleep most night, i get my toddler to sleep everyday hes home (4/5days) and i get my baby to sleep most nights with the exception of maybe twice a month as his dad struggless then about 95% of his thru the day naps.
I have also been unwell for a few months (tumor scare) and am waiting 18 weeks to see a specialist so im obviously petrified for that, so unbelievably tired and alot of aches and pains, specifically these pounding headaches ive been having.
After i had been up til 11:30 getting both kids to sleep lastnight and my partner falling asleep at 10 then him ignoring the baby cries all morning until my toddler woke up im fed up slammed to door and rold him not to expect to sleep in unless he gets the baby to sleep the night b4.
I keep having issues with him not feeling the wet from baby being sick or weeing himself or being able to smell it do about 98% of the time hes given to me i have to clean him up n change him.
Including at night, we agreed my partner would change nappies (1 a night at 5am) while i feed (2,4,5,6:30) but every night when i get him hes pissed through and my partner gets annoyed when i wake him up n moan about it.
Then the morning after hes annoyed at how much washing there is (thats his job) and moans about how often i change myself (baby constantly shits thru and sicks on me) and baby
Honestly im just so tired all the time

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Don’t get me wrong, I tried zipper ones it’s easy to zip in and out when putting it on the first time and taking it out, but I find it difficult when changing diapers especially when baby is asleep.

I prefer those kimono style buttons where it’s easy to button or too down button with crotch snaps.

Is everyone thinking the same or different? Lol

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