Night wake ups

My nearly 10 week old still wakes up about every 3 hours in the night, occasionally she might do a 4 hour stretch, sometimes only does 2! Just wondering if anyone else’s babies still wake up so much at this age cause every baby I see seems to sleep much longer stretches! Also anyone know if it’s better for them to sleep in a dark room or have a red light on, we bought the tommee tippee dream light but now sure if it’s better to have the red light on or be in darkness!

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My little girl is 8 weeks and we get 1 5 hour stretch out of her and we have a white noise machine with a red light on all night x

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All babies are different some of these things help but some babies just don’t sleep as well as others, our first didn’t start sleeping well until 15months, don’t put too much pressure on yourself over it or expect it to happen straight away, hopefully yours will do it much sooner (ours was particularly bad but I’ve also heard of much much worse!) sleep isn’t linear. Co sleeping with our 2nd has meant I’m getting a lot more sleep this time round but she’s waking between 3-4hours sometimes more.. I didn’t have the confidence to co sleep with my 1st I was too nervous but so different 2nd time round! 😂

This is a great account I found , super informative and trustworthy (there is so much conflicting/confusing information out there)

https://www.instagram.com/lyndsey_hookway?igsh=Z3VrNmRvYjF5Zmc2

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So apparently good sleep is genetic so if you or your partner were crap sleepers as baby baby will be too. I'm one of the fortunate ones both my babies by 8 weeks were/are doing 12 hours with no wakes and one thing I do is make sure there's noise for all daytime sleep so the TV on my eldest playing with my youngest naps etc and no swaddles or bags for daytime sleep then nighttime sleep they both were changed put in a swaddle bag and then fed while the TV was on and then put down in their bed to settle themselves to sleep (they've both been able to self soothe and settle to sleep since birth) and then the TV goes off when I'm ready for bed and they sleep in pitch black with only the sounds of snoring to keep them company

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Hour night wakes and 5am get up

Can anyone shed some light as to why on earth my child doesn’t want to sleep??? My eyeballs are bleeding!!

Never been a good sleeper, but the problems always changing. He’s nearly 9 months old.

Beginning of the month he dropped to 2 naps. We could put him to bed at 7pm and he’d get up for the day at 6am, with multiple wake ups every 2/3 hours.

Now we put him down at 7pm, he can do a good 4/5 hour stretch, but come 1/2am he’s up every hour then getting up for the day at 5am. This then completely messes up the day because I can’t keep him awake long enough to even get to 7pm, let alone later.

He has 2 naps, roughly about 1hr10 each but it changed based on when he wakes and trying to get him to a reasonable bed time.

What could be the reason for this? 6am is fine, but 5am is not 😩😩

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I think its fair

Me and my partner agreed to sleep in 1 day of the weekend.
He doesn't find it fair to look after both kids (my 4 year old isnt his) while i sleep so he looks after the baby while i sleep and my toddlers at his dads and ill look after both the next day.
Straightaway it was pretty unfair as i let him sleep in until he wakes up 10-12
He wakes me up when baby starts fussing because he wants milk (doesnt need it)
I cant pump as i dont supply enough.
So i get woken at 9/9:30 to feed baby then i get him sleep then theres no point sleeping in as my toddlers being dropped off.
I also find it unfair that i get both kids to sleep most night, i get my toddler to sleep everyday hes home (4/5days) and i get my baby to sleep most nights with the exception of maybe twice a month as his dad struggless then about 95% of his thru the day naps.
I have also been unwell for a few months (tumor scare) and am waiting 18 weeks to see a specialist so im obviously petrified for that, so unbelievably tired and alot of aches and pains, specifically these pounding headaches ive been having.
After i had been up til 11:30 getting both kids to sleep lastnight and my partner falling asleep at 10 then him ignoring the baby cries all morning until my toddler woke up im fed up slammed to door and rold him not to expect to sleep in unless he gets the baby to sleep the night b4.
I keep having issues with him not feeling the wet from baby being sick or weeing himself or being able to smell it do about 98% of the time hes given to me i have to clean him up n change him.
Including at night, we agreed my partner would change nappies (1 a night at 5am) while i feed (2,4,5,6:30) but every night when i get him hes pissed through and my partner gets annoyed when i wake him up n moan about it.
Then the morning after hes annoyed at how much washing there is (thats his job) and moans about how often i change myself (baby constantly shits thru and sicks on me) and baby
Honestly im just so tired all the time

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I prefer those kimono style buttons where it’s easy to button or too down button with crotch snaps.

Is everyone thinking the same or different? Lol

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