Does anyone else?

Does anyone else find making friends in Adulthood a ballache 🤣 And especially on this App people either don't reply, reply a few times then stop or only ever speak if I make contact first 🙄

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Omg yes!!! Like I just want a couple friends to talk to and hangout and I don’t know why that’s so hard

Hey, message if you like 🙂

Yeeesss 🥹 It's frustrating

Yesss! Why is it so hard to make real connections in adulthood? 😩

Because most women don't prioritize new friendships. Kids and husbands get all the time, energy and attention

This app's been useless for making friends. Reminded me of dating apps 😵‍💫

Dating apps are better 🤣🤣🤣

Yes
Lost ally friends when I had my daughter so could do with some more

I came to this app two weeks ago thinking I would be able to talk to moms going through similar things. I have reached out to quite a few people but I haven't had much luck either. Hopefully it gets better.

100000000% when I left my ex all of my girl gang I grew up with became non friends. So hard to get friends now

feel free to message me xx

Lol yes I 1000% agree
I had hoped it would be a good way to meet new people and make friends, but so far, it's been a waste of time. I'm trying to give it time and hoping I'm one of the lucky ones that actually makes at least one good friend. But im definitely considering deleting the app

It is so hard making friends!!

Just joined a few days ago. Seeing how it goes. But yes, making friends in adulthood is hard!

Yes I'm a loner not proud of it but such as harsh reality in aotearoa it's a task that has defeated me and accept it's out of my control

I would say that I am a bit unsocial. I like to have friends but also like alone time. I have had a few friends that were just flakey which I can't deal with. If I make plans and say I will do something then I do it. I would love some like minded friends as lost mine when I had my daughter

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Hi Moms of NE Ohio

Hi! My name is Alli, and I'm turning 28 this month. 😊

I'm currently transitioning from being a stay-at-home mom to being a single mom and am looking to connect with other women in the area.

I'm located in Kent and wanted to see if anyone would like to become part of a supportive friendship network.

I love health and fitness, skincare, and genuinely kind-hearted people.

I also follow a yoga/Pilates group that meets in Cleveland, so if anyone is interested in checking it out together, I'd love that too! 🙂

How often do you actually want sex?

I have a very high sex drive and I feel I want sex an abnormal amount 🫣 we do have sex most days thankfully 😂 I'm just curious how others feel?

Would you expect MIL to pay for sons birthday meal??

My MIL invited us to a meal at a fancy restaurant for my partners birthday.

They are very much a pay for yourself family ( although my partner is very generous and often pays for them if we go out), however, I assumed as it was his birthday and she picked somewhere fairly expensive (£20 for a roast), that she would be paying for the both of us.

When the bill came it was very awkward and my partner said he was happy to do whatever. FIL looked a bit confused and MIL said put £100 on our card and we just pay the rest (£50), which is technically their share plus £25.

I personally thought it was quite rude to invite us and not pay for the whole thing but I wondered what everyone's opinion was.

Would you expect them to pay? X

Heyy 💕

I’m looking for a long-term bestie, so I figured I’d try this out!

I’m super chill & laid back. I’m a stay-at-home mom and also a gamer 🎮 (Xbox girl). I’m divorced but really thankful I’m in a better, healthier relationship now.

I’m big on watching Lifetime movies and crime documentaries… quick question—have you ever watched anything about Ed Gein?! crazy af lol 😭 but yeah I also love Stranger Things, Grey’s Anatomy, and for movies I’m into comedy, romance/love stories, and sci-fi.

I have one kiddo, she’s 8 💕 and right now I’m a SAHM living with my parents (for now lol). I don’t really talk to many people outside my boyfriend, so I’m honestly just looking for a real bestie I can talk to every day, laugh with, game with, and just do life with.

I’m in Texas, but I don’t mind if you’re out of state at all. I actually had a gamer bestie before who lived out of state and we talked every day - life just kind of drifted us apart.

If you’re looking for a genuine friendship too, send a message 💕

Help!!

so I have 2 potential fathers. I had sexual intercourse with my first partner on November 26-27 and he came inside of me. Multiple times throughout the night. Then a second partner on November 29 but he did not ejaculate inside of me and he pulled out and we only had sex once. My first ultrasound on January 3rd showed I’m 6 weeks 0 days pregnant. Then on my 20 week ultrasound on April 14th it showed 20 weeks 3 days pregnant. Who’s most likely the father.

Exercise

First time mum with a 6 week old. Are any April mums managing to exercise yet? I don’t want to sound vain but I have lost a lot of weight since birth, but still have a pouch and lots of fat around my middle. I don’t like it, I know we need to retain fat for breastfeeding, but I can’t help but feel I’m not ready to be in a swimsuit for summer.

I physically feel I’ve recovered enough to start exercising at home, but I don’t know when as my baby is on me almost all day and all night, she only really contact naps.

Any tips? 🫢