Help!!

So, I’m gonna go with option one just based on sheer volume in comparison to guy #2. Are you going to seek a paternity test?

Probably partner 1. But why were you having sex with two different men unprotected? Pregnancy and potential stds weren't scary to you? And I'm guessing you aren't in a relationship with these men, so you just willingly signed up to be a single mom?

Herpes is for life

So a day after finding out he cheated on you, you went out and had "revenge " sex, unprotected with some dude that likes you?

How is that getting revenge tho? He showed you he doesn't care about your health/physical well being when you had a miscarriage and he called you dramatic. Then he cheats and you have unprotected sex with a random? In a man's eyes you just look easy and like you lack self love/boundaries . Because once he treated you like that after the miscarriage, there's no way you should have still been with him.

I hope you learn from this situation and don't do this again. Have love and respect for yourself. And chose better partners. Oh and of course birth control

If you want to message me, my dms are open. I was in a similar situation x

Just wanted to send some love. I’m sorry a few people have responded unkindly to you. It’s only sex! And we all make mistakes! Best of luck in your pregnancy and take care of yourself x

Jus know that men also have pre cum and even that can get someone prego

Its an unfortunate situation, and I am really sorry you got cheated on by someone you loved. Acting morally superior (ahem Marie) wont change anything. No matter who is the biological father, please look after yourself and build a support network around you to help support you and the baby when it arrives. If you cant afford the test, you are likely going to have to wait until the baby is born and go through court. Sending love x