Trauma candy salad??? But make it internet trauma dump and your favourite meme/gif

Trauma candy salad is a TikTok tread where a group of friends each brings a few different kinds of candy to dump into one big bowl, every time someone adds a bag of candy they say also trauma dump.

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Hi my name is zainab and when I was 16 years old I was waiting alone at a friends house for them to get back, their drunk dad made it home before them and forced me to sit on his lap. No one knew until this post.

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i don’t think about you because of trauma but just memes

holy crap. That is a rough one

yeah he posting her online like they were a swinger couple and she told me about it and that he wanted her to invite her friends around…..he showed up where we were camping (I had to fight my parents to be allowed) and I ran away to a check stop and never seen her again. I begged the police to go in. I’m pretty sure I escaped being trafficked.

Man I’m so sorry about everyone and their trauma… 😞

It’s difficult for me to even type mine out. Hi my (real) name is Alina and I watched my mom die in my living room slowly from a brain tumour… a few years later I dated someone who stalked me and is still in jail for stalking me like 10 years later (on and off) to this day…. Later my husband left me a year after I bought him a house and I lost everything financially…. Oh and then my brother hung himself outside my bedroom window in my high rise condo for everyone to see

Zainab back again. In 2002 my dad told me he was going to divorce my mom and he wanted me to help break the news to my sister and I ended up comforting her by saying we could get bunk beds at dads. A year later he finally told my mom and he told her I already knew so she cried all night in the room next to me. He spent years feeding into the idea he was saving me from her so I didn’t see or speak to her for 17 years after the divorce. Now I realize she was his victim and we have a close relationship.

Thank you all for your vulnerability ❤️🫂

When I was 18 I started working with a girl named Zeina and she had a brother, her brother became obsessed with me for many years, it turned out he was following my places and he called me to tell me he was going to shoot someone I was with but didn’t want to do it in front of me. A couple years later he shot a 17 year old boy in the head in a basement and they dumped him outside the city. He did 10 months in jail because one of his friends decided to take the fall for the shooting part (gang related reasons).

i recently seen his mom in the parking lot of the city I live in (not the city where he did all this) and I made my husband take the kids and pretend he didn’t know me in case he lives here now too.

My name is Cassieof young teenage black men

7 years ago I was on my why to my appointments for in the elevator with some kids and they held me at gun point robbed me then shot me in the neck.gang influenced I survived living with ptsd Ever since then I am Terrified of black young men .. I have a son, and he is black hoping to raise him right But with all the influence in the world it will be difficult. Just hope they don't get to my son.

My name is Jessica and I had my daughter, at 25 weeks, the same day my son had surgery. Oh and also my daughter was born at 25 weeks (and son at 28 weeks)

uhhhh that is utterly terrifying. I’m so happy you were able to hide and sadly I’m not shocked you weren’t taken seriously.

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Hour night wakes and 5am get up

Can anyone shed some light as to why on earth my child doesn’t want to sleep??? My eyeballs are bleeding!!

Never been a good sleeper, but the problems always changing. He’s nearly 9 months old.

Beginning of the month he dropped to 2 naps. We could put him to bed at 7pm and he’d get up for the day at 6am, with multiple wake ups every 2/3 hours.

Now we put him down at 7pm, he can do a good 4/5 hour stretch, but come 1/2am he’s up every hour then getting up for the day at 5am. This then completely messes up the day because I can’t keep him awake long enough to even get to 7pm, let alone later.

He has 2 naps, roughly about 1hr10 each but it changed based on when he wakes and trying to get him to a reasonable bed time.

What could be the reason for this? 6am is fine, but 5am is not 😩😩

I think its fair

Me and my partner agreed to sleep in 1 day of the weekend.
He doesn't find it fair to look after both kids (my 4 year old isnt his) while i sleep so he looks after the baby while i sleep and my toddlers at his dads and ill look after both the next day.
Straightaway it was pretty unfair as i let him sleep in until he wakes up 10-12
He wakes me up when baby starts fussing because he wants milk (doesnt need it)
I cant pump as i dont supply enough.
So i get woken at 9/9:30 to feed baby then i get him sleep then theres no point sleeping in as my toddlers being dropped off.
I also find it unfair that i get both kids to sleep most night, i get my toddler to sleep everyday hes home (4/5days) and i get my baby to sleep most nights with the exception of maybe twice a month as his dad struggless then about 95% of his thru the day naps.
I have also been unwell for a few months (tumor scare) and am waiting 18 weeks to see a specialist so im obviously petrified for that, so unbelievably tired and alot of aches and pains, specifically these pounding headaches ive been having.
After i had been up til 11:30 getting both kids to sleep lastnight and my partner falling asleep at 10 then him ignoring the baby cries all morning until my toddler woke up im fed up slammed to door and rold him not to expect to sleep in unless he gets the baby to sleep the night b4.
I keep having issues with him not feeling the wet from baby being sick or weeing himself or being able to smell it do about 98% of the time hes given to me i have to clean him up n change him.
Including at night, we agreed my partner would change nappies (1 a night at 5am) while i feed (2,4,5,6:30) but every night when i get him hes pissed through and my partner gets annoyed when i wake him up n moan about it.
Then the morning after hes annoyed at how much washing there is (thats his job) and moans about how often i change myself (baby constantly shits thru and sicks on me) and baby
Honestly im just so tired all the time

Over supply of milk

I am nearly 5weeks postpartum and I have such a big over supply of BM.
Has anyone donated / sold their supply, if so where do you recommend for this?

AITA

In the uk there is an outbreak of meningitis, in a specific area mainly. My BD has family from that area and decided to go and meet up with them, I said if he does then he cannot have contact with the kids for 7-10 days after incase he picks anything up. Am I being over dramatic? I reallyyy don’t want my young kids getting anything serious

Help meeee

!!All advice welcome!! My 5 month old (nearly 6mo) is just not sleeping . Not for naps and not at night . She can’t connect her cycles . We started sleep regression at 3 months but in like how is this nearly been going on for a further 3 months . Like surely not . She has 10 min naps in crib ( which take so much effort ) and maybe 20/30 min naps in my arms/pushchair . She wakes minimum every hour at night with guaranteed false start 20 mins in . I combo feed. I breastfeed her until almost asleep then place her in the next to me crib give her the pacifier and put my hand on her cheek/face for 20 seconds and she drifts off . It’s not really getting her to sleep that’s the issue it’s she just won’t stay asleep . She doesn’t even need to feed much at night usually 1-2 breastfeeds . The rest is comfort wakes needing her pacifier or my hand on her cheek . I’ve looked into sleep associations and independent sleep and I broke the feed to sleep association and rocking and do bedside comforting instead for most wakes which has now lead to my hand being a sleep association on her face . I’m just so exhausted my husband is working mon-fri 9-9 and it’s just me . I haven’t had more than 4 hours in a row since her birth . I can’t get anything done during the day . She is so clingy and cries if I leave room /put her down etc. I love her so much but we both need rest . If anyone has any tips or a routine that could help PLEASE tell me I’ll try anything 🥲❤️❤️

Crawling and walking

So my girl is 9 months now and shes great at sitting up and stays on her tummy for awhile but she seems to have no interest in trying to move or crawl or bum shuffle. Shes a big baby always has been but I'm disabled and I feel like it's my fault she's not hitting milestones I feel like there's something I'm not doing and it's making me a bad mum