Baby daddy

So long story short I’ve told my baby. Father plenty of times to get a dna test on our baby in the nicu so we can get that out the way so she won’t have to get it when she comes home the social worker at the hospital offer to start the process of it Monday so I told him let me know before Monday if you don’t let me know before Monday it’s over with for him I told him that I wasn’t going to do dna testing when she leave the nicu because there giving us a chance to gone and do everything while she’s here in the nicu with treatments and all so now is the timeing and evertime I would ask he either dodge the question about doing the test or say wait until til she gets home but I’m saying to do everything while she’s in the nicu but yes I told him if he doesn’t let me know by Monday I will not be doing the dna testing when she leave to come home which Ik he’s the father 100% but it’s him that want to make sure but yes again I told him what I said he told me i couldn’t not do the dna testing once she comes home but I told him “yeah ok” and I will be leaving him alone cause I’m so tired of everything ! Because he barley checks on her he don’t ask if we need anything his mom do all the checking up like it’s her baby and I told him this is your baby not hers be responsible but he can be on Facebook and instagram joking about wanting a girlfriend when he don’t check up on the baby so I need a little advise and advice on the dna situation could I not want to do it when she come home after I gave him chance after chance to do it while we’re was the hospital? But he’s the dad 100%

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I’ve had friends use the test from Amazon, they had the father their mouth and child, then mail the swabs back to lab and results in 3-5 business days so u can always do that after baby leave nicu & what I’ve learned from being a parent is you can’t make someone want to do something, they gotta wanna do it. So he’ll step up when he’s ready & in the meantime you focus on your bundle of joy.

Link below for dna testing

https://a.co/d/0R9Hs4a

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