Skills

Baby is now 1 year old and still won’t clap or wave. He says dads and sometimes mama. But that’s it. He crawls, pulls himself up and can let go to stand on his own. But why isn’t he clapping or waving? No high-fives or anything like that.

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Same here! Not sure if this helps you but hey, someone else is going through the same thing.

I haven’t been able to get my daughter to clap yet but her dad travels for work and him waving at her on the phone helped teach her how to say hi

Every baby makes developments at their own pace, but if you are concerned you can ask your doctor about an ECI evaluation. Therapy can be very helpful, even if they only need it for a short period of time! My baby turns one in a couple days, and she JUST started army crawling. And she’s been in therapy since March. :)

None of my babies started clapping or waving before one, they crawled and walked around one years old. All babies develop differently at their own pace. You can always get a referral for early intervention

Social media (including this app) puts wayyyy too much pressure on us to have our babies doing what other babies are doing. Your baby sounds right on track to me, no need to panic or be concerned, keep showing him how to wave and how to clap and one day he will pick it up. Try to not get too fixated on one or two skills. If this was at 18 months i would be like okay somethings up, but at 11-12 months it’s completely normal to not have those skills in their skillset yet!

I just get so worried because everything I see (including Ms Rachel) waving and clapping should happen between 9-12 months

I saw that one episode where she saying babies should clap at 11 months and I thought for a sec about the pressure placed on us parents then we start thinking summin wrong with our babies. My 1 yr old says mama / dada, baby and understands no! So if he doesn’t clap yet I’m still grateful for what he’s doing. Don’t stress yourself mama!

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Hour night wakes and 5am get up

Can anyone shed some light as to why on earth my child doesn’t want to sleep??? My eyeballs are bleeding!!

Never been a good sleeper, but the problems always changing. He’s nearly 9 months old.

Beginning of the month he dropped to 2 naps. We could put him to bed at 7pm and he’d get up for the day at 6am, with multiple wake ups every 2/3 hours.

Now we put him down at 7pm, he can do a good 4/5 hour stretch, but come 1/2am he’s up every hour then getting up for the day at 5am. This then completely messes up the day because I can’t keep him awake long enough to even get to 7pm, let alone later.

He has 2 naps, roughly about 1hr10 each but it changed based on when he wakes and trying to get him to a reasonable bed time.

What could be the reason for this? 6am is fine, but 5am is not 😩😩

AITA

In the uk there is an outbreak of meningitis, in a specific area mainly. My BD has family from that area and decided to go and meet up with them, I said if he does then he cannot have contact with the kids for 7-10 days after incase he picks anything up. Am I being over dramatic? I reallyyy don’t want my young kids getting anything serious

I think its fair

Me and my partner agreed to sleep in 1 day of the weekend.
He doesn't find it fair to look after both kids (my 4 year old isnt his) while i sleep so he looks after the baby while i sleep and my toddlers at his dads and ill look after both the next day.
Straightaway it was pretty unfair as i let him sleep in until he wakes up 10-12
He wakes me up when baby starts fussing because he wants milk (doesnt need it)
I cant pump as i dont supply enough.
So i get woken at 9/9:30 to feed baby then i get him sleep then theres no point sleeping in as my toddlers being dropped off.
I also find it unfair that i get both kids to sleep most night, i get my toddler to sleep everyday hes home (4/5days) and i get my baby to sleep most nights with the exception of maybe twice a month as his dad struggless then about 95% of his thru the day naps.
I have also been unwell for a few months (tumor scare) and am waiting 18 weeks to see a specialist so im obviously petrified for that, so unbelievably tired and alot of aches and pains, specifically these pounding headaches ive been having.
After i had been up til 11:30 getting both kids to sleep lastnight and my partner falling asleep at 10 then him ignoring the baby cries all morning until my toddler woke up im fed up slammed to door and rold him not to expect to sleep in unless he gets the baby to sleep the night b4.
I keep having issues with him not feeling the wet from baby being sick or weeing himself or being able to smell it do about 98% of the time hes given to me i have to clean him up n change him.
Including at night, we agreed my partner would change nappies (1 a night at 5am) while i feed (2,4,5,6:30) but every night when i get him hes pissed through and my partner gets annoyed when i wake him up n moan about it.
Then the morning after hes annoyed at how much washing there is (thats his job) and moans about how often i change myself (baby constantly shits thru and sicks on me) and baby
Honestly im just so tired all the time

Over supply of milk

I am nearly 5weeks postpartum and I have such a big over supply of BM.
Has anyone donated / sold their supply, if so where do you recommend for this?

Crawling and walking

So my girl is 9 months now and shes great at sitting up and stays on her tummy for awhile but she seems to have no interest in trying to move or crawl or bum shuffle. Shes a big baby always has been but I'm disabled and I feel like it's my fault she's not hitting milestones I feel like there's something I'm not doing and it's making me a bad mum

Night feeding in sleeping bag

Do you guys keep your baby in their sleeping bag when you feed them in the night, or do you take it off? I take it off as don’t want him to be too hot but then sometimes when he’s sleepy after his feed and I go to put it back on him he wakes up and is fussy. Not sure if I should just keep him in it?