She is all the way in China we are in Canada. My husband said no and I'm grateful to him for that.
I really don't think people who are 60+ can efficiently look after babies without going into an early grave.
My grandmother tried to take over my mom's role as me and my younger sister were teenagers and she died at 77
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Depends on the baby and depends on the grandparent. Also teenagers are typically way more stressful than babies. My MIL helped/helps with my very rowdy son and she’s in her 60s. My mom is in her 70s and helps as well, but it does stress her out a bit sometimes.