To feed or not to feed

Little guy reached birthweight at 9 days old and our pediatrician told us to still wake him to feed every four hours if he hasn’t woken up. Does this include during the day as well or only during the middle of the night? Or should I keep feeding him every three hours during the day and every four hours at night (if he doesn’t wake up on his own, of course)?

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I had a late premie (37 weeks) so maybe it’s different but after reaching birth weight and some my pediatrician said every 4 hours at night and still every 2 during the day. Although sometimes she’s hard to wake and we end up doing 3 during the day.

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I do every 4 hours after reaching birth weight at night. And during the day it's on demand and if napping I'll wake him between 2-3 hours nothing longer than 3

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mine is hard to wake in general.In the hospital they had me feeding her every two to three hour but should fall asleep on my boob. Once we got home I was feeding her when she wakes up but we just had out doctors appointment and were told she dropped 10% her birth wait

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They said to wake her up every two to three hours and feed at least 2 oz she should be getting 8 to 12 feedings if I can’t produce enough milk to get her weight up I’ll have to do half breast milk and half formula

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I'll also add- Eventually I'll just let him sleep at night whenever my pediatrician gives me the go ahead and he'll wake when he is hungry. But I make small babies all of my kids have been in the 5lb range and I like to make sure they are getting all the calories I can give them.

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my lactation specialist suggested I pump. So I put her on the boob for 30 then pump and feed her what I pumped. Usually 2 oz that was to get her to gain. She recommended the lansinoh bottles because they mimic the human nipple better than others.

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Our ped told us we can stop waking to feed at night. Personally I try to feed every 2-3 hours during daytime to get calories in so they don't need them at night. He still wakes every 3-4 hours though.

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If baby is gaining and healthy, there’s no need to wake at night. They probably would still wake anyway, but in the off chance they give you 4-5hrs, TAKE IT. They’ll hit a sleep regression before you know it 😅

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Can anyone shed some light as to why on earth my child doesn’t want to sleep??? My eyeballs are bleeding!!

Never been a good sleeper, but the problems always changing. He’s nearly 9 months old.

Beginning of the month he dropped to 2 naps. We could put him to bed at 7pm and he’d get up for the day at 6am, with multiple wake ups every 2/3 hours.

Now we put him down at 7pm, he can do a good 4/5 hour stretch, but come 1/2am he’s up every hour then getting up for the day at 5am. This then completely messes up the day because I can’t keep him awake long enough to even get to 7pm, let alone later.

He has 2 naps, roughly about 1hr10 each but it changed based on when he wakes and trying to get him to a reasonable bed time.

What could be the reason for this? 6am is fine, but 5am is not 😩😩

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Me and my partner agreed to sleep in 1 day of the weekend.
He doesn't find it fair to look after both kids (my 4 year old isnt his) while i sleep so he looks after the baby while i sleep and my toddlers at his dads and ill look after both the next day.
Straightaway it was pretty unfair as i let him sleep in until he wakes up 10-12
He wakes me up when baby starts fussing because he wants milk (doesnt need it)
I cant pump as i dont supply enough.
So i get woken at 9/9:30 to feed baby then i get him sleep then theres no point sleeping in as my toddlers being dropped off.
I also find it unfair that i get both kids to sleep most night, i get my toddler to sleep everyday hes home (4/5days) and i get my baby to sleep most nights with the exception of maybe twice a month as his dad struggless then about 95% of his thru the day naps.
I have also been unwell for a few months (tumor scare) and am waiting 18 weeks to see a specialist so im obviously petrified for that, so unbelievably tired and alot of aches and pains, specifically these pounding headaches ive been having.
After i had been up til 11:30 getting both kids to sleep lastnight and my partner falling asleep at 10 then him ignoring the baby cries all morning until my toddler woke up im fed up slammed to door and rold him not to expect to sleep in unless he gets the baby to sleep the night b4.
I keep having issues with him not feeling the wet from baby being sick or weeing himself or being able to smell it do about 98% of the time hes given to me i have to clean him up n change him.
Including at night, we agreed my partner would change nappies (1 a night at 5am) while i feed (2,4,5,6:30) but every night when i get him hes pissed through and my partner gets annoyed when i wake him up n moan about it.
Then the morning after hes annoyed at how much washing there is (thats his job) and moans about how often i change myself (baby constantly shits thru and sicks on me) and baby
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