Am I the only one??

Am I the only one that very much dislikes it when ppl talk to my sleeping baby and wake her up?? I mean i just want her to have a decent hour 2 hour nap.. and all I hear is “she’s getting bigger she’s going to nap less” she’s 3 weeks old, no she needs her damn naps.. also I keep saying I don’t want to put her in a swing but my sister gave me a hand me down one anyways and now I keep hearing let’s set it up let’s put her in it.. no thank you I like her contact napping she’ll not want to be held sooner or later can I enjoy the life I brought into this world while almost dying 🤷🏻‍♀️