2nd+ Timers…

What are you buying for second time round you didn’t first time? Or if on 3+ what did you buy which was a lifesaver second time? Trying to make a list. Obviously have loads already but for example I want to pick up a second hand bassinet for downstairs naps, any other suggestions would be great!

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I’m having my 2nd baby, I’m not getting a prep machine it’s easier just to use cold water and hot. I am going to get a rapid cool.
I’m skipping the small bottles and going straight for big ones because the small ones you barley get use out of
I’m not getting a bouncer just a swing for downstairs
Not going overboard with clothes this time

Oh agree, we got the prep last time but had a refluxy baby so avoided using it, might sell it to be honest as we might just EBF this time anyway! Already have a bouncer so that’s taken care of, been to town on Facebook marketplace 😅

we never used our bouncer😂😂 we used the baby swing all the time but the bouncer we ended up giving away

Also not bothering with the little bottles, and I'm going to make sure I have things like calpol, invacol, a nose suction thing, all ready so I don't have to panic if I don't have any the first time we need it, for me I'm not bothering with maternity pads, adult nappies to start with then nighttime pads as they are the same absorbency at half the price, and I'm gonna get a proper peri bottle and not use a jug this time lol

have you tried the purple lil lets maternity pads?? They’re only £2 and are so much better than any pad I’ve used I use to use them for periods too

@Natalya no I thought they only did the tiny tampons lol ill have to have a look thank you ☺️ x

they’re so good!! The only ones I’ll use now they’re so soft😂

Ah yes the a bottle good shout! Sorry Pyrex jug 😂

We went with a babybay bedside cot in bedroom
And a halo bassinet downstairs
Both gotten off Facebook marketplace the halo is tiny so we would probably use it only 3-4 months
Bouncer and swing
Babysleep suits
Vests
Nappies - starting to slowly buy a stash from now and will buy some formula < I couldn't breastfeed with my first so just in case >
Bottles
Dummy

Also change for me I'm leaving the pads and going for the underwear style atleast for a week / two with just nighties on top - I am having a csection and I found them so much more comfortable then the maternity pads

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Hour night wakes and 5am get up

Can anyone shed some light as to why on earth my child doesn’t want to sleep??? My eyeballs are bleeding!!

Never been a good sleeper, but the problems always changing. He’s nearly 9 months old.

Beginning of the month he dropped to 2 naps. We could put him to bed at 7pm and he’d get up for the day at 6am, with multiple wake ups every 2/3 hours.

Now we put him down at 7pm, he can do a good 4/5 hour stretch, but come 1/2am he’s up every hour then getting up for the day at 5am. This then completely messes up the day because I can’t keep him awake long enough to even get to 7pm, let alone later.

He has 2 naps, roughly about 1hr10 each but it changed based on when he wakes and trying to get him to a reasonable bed time.

What could be the reason for this? 6am is fine, but 5am is not 😩😩

AITA

In the uk there is an outbreak of meningitis, in a specific area mainly. My BD has family from that area and decided to go and meet up with them, I said if he does then he cannot have contact with the kids for 7-10 days after incase he picks anything up. Am I being over dramatic? I reallyyy don’t want my young kids getting anything serious

I think its fair

Me and my partner agreed to sleep in 1 day of the weekend.
He doesn't find it fair to look after both kids (my 4 year old isnt his) while i sleep so he looks after the baby while i sleep and my toddlers at his dads and ill look after both the next day.
Straightaway it was pretty unfair as i let him sleep in until he wakes up 10-12
He wakes me up when baby starts fussing because he wants milk (doesnt need it)
I cant pump as i dont supply enough.
So i get woken at 9/9:30 to feed baby then i get him sleep then theres no point sleeping in as my toddlers being dropped off.
I also find it unfair that i get both kids to sleep most night, i get my toddler to sleep everyday hes home (4/5days) and i get my baby to sleep most nights with the exception of maybe twice a month as his dad struggless then about 95% of his thru the day naps.
I have also been unwell for a few months (tumor scare) and am waiting 18 weeks to see a specialist so im obviously petrified for that, so unbelievably tired and alot of aches and pains, specifically these pounding headaches ive been having.
After i had been up til 11:30 getting both kids to sleep lastnight and my partner falling asleep at 10 then him ignoring the baby cries all morning until my toddler woke up im fed up slammed to door and rold him not to expect to sleep in unless he gets the baby to sleep the night b4.
I keep having issues with him not feeling the wet from baby being sick or weeing himself or being able to smell it do about 98% of the time hes given to me i have to clean him up n change him.
Including at night, we agreed my partner would change nappies (1 a night at 5am) while i feed (2,4,5,6:30) but every night when i get him hes pissed through and my partner gets annoyed when i wake him up n moan about it.
Then the morning after hes annoyed at how much washing there is (thats his job) and moans about how often i change myself (baby constantly shits thru and sicks on me) and baby
Honestly im just so tired all the time

Over supply of milk

I am nearly 5weeks postpartum and I have such a big over supply of BM.
Has anyone donated / sold their supply, if so where do you recommend for this?

Crawling and walking

So my girl is 9 months now and shes great at sitting up and stays on her tummy for awhile but she seems to have no interest in trying to move or crawl or bum shuffle. Shes a big baby always has been but I'm disabled and I feel like it's my fault she's not hitting milestones I feel like there's something I'm not doing and it's making me a bad mum

Night feeding in sleeping bag

Do you guys keep your baby in their sleeping bag when you feed them in the night, or do you take it off? I take it off as don’t want him to be too hot but then sometimes when he’s sleepy after his feed and I go to put it back on him he wakes up and is fussy. Not sure if I should just keep him in it?